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postr/StutterSep 20, 2025
12 points

Ex-stutterers' club

Ex-stutterers' club I am a middle aged guy who had a stutter for most of their life.  I created this post because I am interested in others who had a stutter and overcame it.  I beat mine over a decad...

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postr/StutterSep 19, 2025
21 points

Ive had a severe stutter all my life but

Ive had a severe stutter all my life but Recently I got engaged and promoted to project manager for a construction company. I know it’s tough out there and easy to lose hope but don’t let this thing...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2025
30 points

had a job interview, tried to say the word “country”, ended up just saying cunt over and over again 😎😎😎...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2025
1 points

I often worry about this too. Out of nowhere, about three months ago, I developed a stutter. I’ve never stuttered in my life until now, it just happened suddenly, almost like I woke up with it. What m...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2025
49 points

Job interviews. I'm unemployed cause the last interview I went to, the owner told the manager to tell me I don't have enough confidence for the job. I almost killed myself cause I was getting over thi...

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postr/StutterSep 19, 2025
9 points

How’s life going for you?

How’s life going for you? I’m someone who stammers and I’ve been wondering how others with the stuttering are doing in life. i am 20 m would be 21 next month . I wanted some tips on how do you handle ...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2025
2 points

Totally relate to this. I have messed up so many interviews due to this. Even if I know more than any other candidate in the job interview, there is only 10%(best case) chance that I would be selected...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2025
9 points

You bring up a great point. Everyone likes to talk about ‘accessibility’ flexibility for workers. My stutter (which is mild in all honesty) has never been granted any work accommodations for the las...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2025
1 points

If you think its OK to say what the name is I might be able to come up with something similar. Yes phone calls are difficult for my husband too so I takecon that role whenever possible. Things are dif...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2025
1 points

Thanks for the vote of confidence - do I just preserve through phone calls that need the name?! I think they're my kryptonite....

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2025
5 points

Wrong people are labelled good communicators in toxic workplaces. Fast speakers just repeating the same points over and over and talking over other people. they should not be considered good communica...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2025
13 points

Just like how guys with no good intentions are able to sweet talk their way into getting women. Communication is everything. You could be telling a bold faced lie and people will swallow it just becau...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2025
5 points

Maybe you don’t want to make a big deal out of it, but I’d tell someone about her comment. Aside from that being hurtful, it’s just extremely unprofessional to say in the workplace....

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2025
19 points

exactly, i understand people with good communication will always have advantage over me but it's insane how far people can get in there career by just being able to speak smoothly and not knowing shit...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2025
27 points

Yep its crazy. I was at the job interview for a member of a kitchen staff and soon as I stuttered it was over. My job is to cook the food, not talk to it. I wouldn't even need to talk at this job. Th...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2025
1 points

I agree with you. Lee's book and techniques have transformed my life in so many ways. For me it was very hard work over time (multiple hours daily) but it worked out quite well and I have gone from no...

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postr/StutterSep 18, 2025
66 points

Soft skills 🤪, communication 🤪

Soft skills 🤪, communication 🤪 Like bro, most jobs aren’t even about actual skill anymore. It’s all about how smooth you sound, like you’re supposed to talk like a news anchor. And if anyone says ...

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commentr/StutterSep 17, 2025
1 points

Retail jobs have like stocking and merchandising jobs where you either come in before opening or after closing and stock and fill. I work at Ulta as a tasker and we’re only out on the floor for 2 hour...

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commentr/StutterSep 17, 2025
3 points

I follow him too. Props to him for his drive thru videos… that would be straight up torture for me...

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commentr/StutterSep 17, 2025
3 points

I just turned 25. I have the exact same issue as you. It gets more intense in the more unfimiliar or stressed situation I am. I can see the word in my head but I cannot pronounce it. I try to come u...

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