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commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2019
3 points

SLP (Speech Language Pathologist) here, so I can only offer that perspective. Although I have experienced some social anxiety in the past, which made it difficult/ impossible for me to talk in certain...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2019
3 points

I think I might have been a less tolerant person. Having your own struggles makes you aware of how hard things can be for other people ...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
1 points

What's with software Devs that stutter I'm currently studying software engineering and have a stutter too. I guess we talk better with technology than people...

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commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
1 points

Yeah I think it definitely should be and yeah stammering affects a major part of life and this case it is being assessed so it should be taken seriously as a disability. I wouldn’t give up on it thoug...

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commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
1 points

Thanks for your reply. Is it not a disability though? If the stammer is severe enough that it prevents/impedes fluent/controlled speech and is out of my control, it must be a disability. The speech ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
1 points

I start Uni in September and I'm going through this process right now as I stated it in my application. I also have Asperger's syndrome so that's what I place my stammer under. Pretty sure if you have...

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School & Academic LifeIdentity & Self-PerceptionAccess & Rights
postr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
3 points

Is your stutter talked about with your family?

Is your stutter talked about with your family? My family has never mentioned my stutter to me, it’s never a topic of discussion. The only memory I have was in second grade my older brother said my mom...

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commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2019
2 points

I never had much of a strategy for speeches. I think having a strategy makes me more focused on my speaking and then I stutter more. So I focus on my technical stuff and audience instead. And yes I st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2019
2 points

One thing that I have found in my interviews that worked well is confidence, finding your “trigger” sounds (mine is words starting with H and sometime F) and avoiding them when you get nervous or feel...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2019
2 points

Check out your local NSA (national stuttering association) chapter. You will meet people of all ages through their meetings. The one in Pittsburgh meets twice a month and I've met some great people th...

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commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2019
2 points

I would probably be more social and have more friends. One positive thing that stuttering has done is to make me more humble, Im pretty sure I would be quite arrogant if I didn't stutter....

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commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2019
1 points

I’m Glad Iknow both but if I stutter my hands “stutter”too so it’s part of my tick sadly.....I can use it when I have a nice day ...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Physical TensionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2019
2 points

I met my wife at a past job that we shared. I was already working and she got hired into the department. I was pretty shy at the time and while we flirted with each other she was the one that made the...

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Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2019
1 points

I know what you mean. If I just woke up one day and didn't stutter I wouldn't know what to do!...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2019
2 points

I have tons of ticks and I’m the only girl and stutter(er) in my family naturally. I do have an uncle with one but he was apart of a malpractice as an infant and suffers brains damage so the stutter i...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Physical TensionGenetic & Family FactorsIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2019
1 points

Interestingly enough, my stutter has made me more social. I have wanted to get out of my comfort zone, so I’m pretty social. If I didn’t have my stutter, I’d probably sit at home and waste my life. So...

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commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2019
1 points

i think i would have been a jerk for sure if i didn't stutter!...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2019
2 points

S/o to us for all being 23 with a stutter we should form a band lmao but dude never count yourself out stuttering can make you feel awful at times (sometimes more than not) but remember you are not yo...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2019
13 points

I think I’m a kinder, more accepting person because of it. I also wouldn’t have found my chosen career without it (SLP). I work with a lot of preschoolers on the autism spectrum. I find that I don’t g...

Identity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
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postr/StutterFeb 11, 2019
25 points

What kind of person would I be without a stutter?

What kind of person would I be without a stutter? Does anyone ever think this? I'm 23 years old and I've come to terms with my stutter now but I still have good days and bad days depending on my mood...

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