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commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
1 points

I'm an industry scientist, my fluency is moderate to mild most of the time. I have no problem giving presentations as I speak with a different cadence and i almost never stutter. Difficulty comes when...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentEnergy & Biological RhythmsAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
2 points

Ah okay. I guess I’ve rewired my brain to some extent. I’m way more fluent than when I was a kid. But there are times when I still stutter, which is why I say I *am* a person who stutters. I’m good wi...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
1 points

As I said, I’m old lol. I’m not up with the state of the art that has evolved, so my advice may not be any good anymore. The most obvious one for me was word substitution. I could not, for example, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSituational Variability+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
3 points

For me the worst thing about stuttering was the fear of speaking to people. I was ashamed. Over the years I did all the things to mask it and I became an expert it hiding it. My wife just asked me w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
1 points

I don’t completely agree with this. Stuttering is definitely neurological. And self acceptance and dealing with anxiety is 100% crucial. But I have found that a holistic therapy that targets the phys...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainFluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
2 points

Just got a message from someone trying to push me towards Lee Lovett's "Stop Stuttering" program. I'm all for neuroplasticity and neuroscience but looking through the videos, the people who were "cure...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Fluency TechniquesAcceptance & PrideCure Claims / Alt-Treats
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
3 points

Not really a problem in my experience but I’m sure it happens. Anyone who maliciously does it though doesn’t deserve your time or energy. I think we’re way harder on ourselves than anyone ever could b...

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Stigma & BullyingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
1 points

absurdism is also a good philosophy that can apply to avoidance reduction. stuttering itself is absurd...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
1 points

I laugh about it but it hurts really😂 then i try to distract myself so that i wouldnt overthink about it lol...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
2 points

Listen, not everyone deserves your attention or emotion. Bad people will always exist. Just like you don't fall in love with everybody you don't get angry or ashamed in front of anybody. Choose who yo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
1 points

For real alot of people don’t get that i don’t care if their tolerant or not of my stuttering because at the end of the day im not....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
8 points

Most of our stress and troubles come from caring too much about what other people think/say. Everyone we let ourselves get hurt by other people’s judgements, Our brain physically spins up stronger and...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
2 points

I don't take it personally, they'll tease about anything.  I just smile comfortable in my own shoes as if they teased me about anything else....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
1 points

This is a bone of contention between me and my therapist. The approach to therapy is very different here as compared to the West. My therapist likes to use the word cured and it gets thrown around a l...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Therapy ExperiencesAcceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
postr/StutterOct 29, 2025
22 points

sending love 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

sending love 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽 embrace your stutter. it shouldn’t be something holding you back. and if it is; although easier said than done and it will take time; but we need learn to embrace our differ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
1 points

I’ve been in customer support/ ops for 15 years and current director of operations for a healthcare startup. I talk to customers and execs all day. I own it. No one has ever made a comment or used it ...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
5 points

I know the feeling. I’m envious of my peers at work because they can present so eloquently, and here I am, a bumbling mess when I talk. I’ve resigned myself to the fact that I’ll never be fluent, so...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
1 points

There are tedtalks and interesting videos out there on YouTube but unfortunately there is no agreed upon cure, more like facing it and it gets easier in that sense. ...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
2 points

The thing to remember is the women you are considering dating are also self-conscious about their own issues. They might be worried about how they look, how they are perceived, how they sound when the...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterOct 28, 2025
2 points

Dating and stuttering

Dating and stuttering Stuttering has been a part of my life since I was 15 or 16y/o, now I am 21 and I have accepted that it's gonna be with forever and I am trying to be more open about it but it fee...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more