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commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
1 points

I think many people are closet stutters, like I have spent my life, trying hard to hide it all cost. Very stressful life to say the least....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
1 points

How did you develop thick skin? I have a fragile ego and even one rude comment would ruin my self esteem....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
1 points

Was shopping with gf and mother in law when we met a stutter working as the cashier. He was struggling but managed. She paid while i packed the things and she said that "he had to be retarded or somet...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMay 7, 2025
34 points

Really hurtful experience

Really hurtful experience I(24F) have recently joined an operational work job in which I don't have to interact with people. When I gave the interview for the aforementioned job, I told the employer t...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
-2 points

Can't blame people for not liking it. Stuttering is an ugly trait to have....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
2 points

Yes, I realized the same some time ago. However, I believe the trauma is not in the stuttering itself, but in the experience of others’ reactions and the shame associated with it. It’s a form of CPTSD...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/stutteringMay 6, 2025
3 points

Nobody deserves this

Nobody deserves this Hello everyone! I thought I would introduce myself a little and talk about a recent experience I had with a car salesman. But first, I’ve had a speech disability (or stutter as it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterMay 6, 2025
71 points

Can't able to say my name

Can't able to say my name I recently got a job. Today 2 preety female colleagues came to me and just simply asked my name. I was like Aaaaaaanubhav. For that moment I was like I just want to kill my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2025
2 points

I have been in your position. It is very difficult and a process. I am 60 now, and I don’t really think about my speech stuttering much now. But I do think about my own evolution and that of others! K...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2025
1 points

Wow! You nailed it for me. You defined the trauma of stuttering to a T. Now I have to deal with my adverse reactions, the result of how I perceive myself. Thanks...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMay 5, 2025
30 points

Really hurtful experience today

Really hurtful experience today So I’m in college and I work at a preschool and there is 2 other teachers besides me who work in the classroom at the same time as I do. The kids I work with are like 4...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2025
1 points

People always say shit like this but y'all never say how you did it. We all know that it's nothing to be ashamed of. We all know that we didn't wake up one day and choose this for ourselves. We all kn...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
8 points

Actually there are many use cases, the first one that motivated us to develop this app, is sending fluent voice notes over whatsapp. Only a stutterer knows how much painful is to record an audio and s...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
3 points

I struggle with communicating with anyone in general, including women. There were times with certain women, where a relationship was possible, but my insecurity and attempt to avoid emotional intimacy...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2025
10 points

I don't know about the moment we stutter. When I stutter my brain is kind of frozen and I can't think. However, what I can do is change how I respond to the block after the distressing stuttering eve...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessMindfulness & Breathing+1 more
postr/StutterMay 3, 2025
50 points

Stuttering IS trauma

Stuttering IS trauma Something that I never realised was that I'm actually experiencing trauma nearly 24/7. I've always thought that trauma needs to be something huge like a big accident or smth but e...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2025
3 points

I’ll tell you what my grandmother thought of my stutter. She was ashamed of me. She once told me her brother stuttered, and so on her deathbed, my mom asked her about it, since she had never said th...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterMay 1, 2025
93 points

Despite having a stutter, I've led a relatively remarkable life.

Despite having a stutter, I've led a relatively remarkable life. As I sit here after a long shift at the hospital, I can't help but think that I've had a pretty good life despite this damn stutter. L...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2025
1 points

Yes yes yes and yes. At work I’m awful it’s embarrassing. At home and with friends nowhere near as bad. I reckon if my work colleague saw me outside of work they’d be shocked...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2025
6 points

Yeah I stutter the most around my dad cause he's always made the biggest issue out of it even now I'm pushing 40 haha...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict