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postr/StutterJun 15, 2021
54 points

Stuttering is very beneficial when it comes to dating.

Stuttering is very beneficial when it comes to dating. Stuttering is extremely beneficial when it comes to dating. Yes you heard that right.  (If you are not interested in dating psychology, this pos...

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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2021
2 points

The reason that a lot of guys who stutter have trouble in relationships is because of a lack of confidence and pride in oneself. You need to have an “idgaf” mentality about your stutter, or you won’t ...

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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2021
1 points

I have one of these that I keep in my wallet. I don’t pass it out or anything, but it’s a nice reminder to myself to be open and genuine about my stuttering. I find it helpful everytime I open my wall...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2021
2 points

I feel like I’m more compassionate towards other people than most people are. I know what it’s like to be made fun of and stuff like that. I’m okay now, I’m 30 years old. Yes I still stutter noticeabl...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2021
5 points

Personally, I don't anymore. My fluency is currently pretty good (bad today though for whatever reason) but I prefer to just "say it" after I hit a few blocks. I don't think you need to put it in yo...

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postr/StutterJun 14, 2021
20 points

Self Introduction and My Method in Alleviating Stuttering

Self Introduction and My Method in Alleviating Stuttering Hi all, I've been a person who stutters all of my life. After almost three decades of struggling with stuttering and experimenting with almost...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2021
4 points

I read all your words, just you know, keep fighting, after many years, I managed to don't give a f to anyone because as long as I do my job, I'm good , stop thinking what people think, u will see them...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2021
0 points

It would be better worded like I have a super power like these people https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_stutterers#:~:text=People%20who%20stutter%20include%20British,and%20country%20singer%20Mel%...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2021
2 points

One of my coworkers at an old job is a sales manager at a car dealership and stutters. English isn't his first language. Customers were actually concerned about him because you dont really run into it...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2021
2 points

It is really liberating because you stop focus on hiding your stutter and you focus on the conversation. Most of the time people are really curious about my stutter and I end up inform them. So yeah I...

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postr/StutterJun 13, 2021
47 points

My experience in overcoming stuttering.

My experience in overcoming stuttering. A few days ago I saw a post on this subreddit talking about how the best way to overcome stuttering is to stutter more. i.e. to put yourself out of your comfor...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2021
1 points

Agreed. Do not make it a big deal and just go with the flow. I cover TMT and based out of San Francisco. I have a moderate stutter and have done fine. If you want to chat please feel free to message m...

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postr/StutterJun 12, 2021
12 points

WEEKLY QUESTION: What is one positive thing that came out from your stuttering condition?

WEEKLY QUESTION: What is one positive thing that came out from your stuttering condition? ...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2021
1 points

Normally nobody cares or finds it cute. I get clear from the start that i dont want them to finish my sentences or advice me, I try not to be rude about that because they do it because they think it h...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2021
2 points

I work as a Batista. Some days used to be a living hell and I was really terrified when someone asked me about the price of coffee. I didn't like that. I didn't like when I woke up the first thing t...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2021
9 points

For me I find talking/interacting with people really does help my stutter lessen....

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2021
13 points

Regardless of the exercises used, I'd caution against using the phrasing "getting rid of". We can't get rid of stuttering, we can only make it easier for ourselves. If you set your expectations accor...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2021
3 points

I have a stutter that's pretty much out there all the time. I did the online dating. I used to get the question, "how bad is it"? (Probably worse than you're thinking it is lol). At the end of my p...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2021
1 points

The only thing preventing you from reaching your greatness are the barriers you place in-front of you...And all of those are externally learned and then internalized. They aren't yours and you/we all ...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2021
1 points

Why try to "escape" them when one can turn and face them up front and person then sort them out and, get to know more about yourself as you move forward without having to hide the great person you're ...

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