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commentr/StutterNov 18, 2024
1 points

Honestly dude, I think it'd be best if you just told her. If she thinks it's a dealbreaker, it's on her, but at least you tried to be honest. If you keep the same scared mentality going forward, every...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2024
7 points

I have a moderate stutter, but it tends to come out at the worst times—especially when the stakes are high. For example, I might tell a joke or story smoothly but then block at the punchline, ruining ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2024
2 points

Only when I was dating or for interviews. If I'm meeting friends of friends, or random people, they'll figure it out. Most of the time I assume others have told them anyway....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2024
2 points

Nah gang don't you see the opportunities you miss out on.lemme give you an example,there was this chick in my 12th class,had crush on since 11th and she asked me an English answer,since she was sittin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2024
3 points

hey buddy,im 18m also from india,Is your stammer genetic,coz mine is and i cant even think about having a child to whom the stammer will pass on,also the experiences i had with women were so embarrass...

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Genetic & Family FactorsDating & RomanceShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2024
5 points

As long as you put yourself out there, are confident and don’t shy away from situations I don’t think your stuttering will make finding a partner harder. To a certain point, it is only an obstacle if ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2024
1 points

I get the concern around dating. I can’t get many words out, but when I can, I make sure they are very well thought out and meaningful. You have a lot of time to select and assemble your replies when ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & RomanceSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2024
2 points

Hi mate just wanted to say thanks for your reply, there’s definitely something comforting about hearing I’m not alone. You do sound a lot like myself which is nice in a weird way ? Everything you’ve ...

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Validation & EmpathyDating & Romance
postr/StutterNov 16, 2024
11 points

Stuttering and Arranged Marriage

Stuttering and Arranged Marriage Hi everyone, I’m a 23-year-old guy from India, and I’ve had a moderate stutter all my life. While I’ve tried speech therapy, I’ve accepted that my stutter is likely a...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2024
2 points

I think I understand what you mean. You feel like you are performing so you are not able to feel the moment and your emotions. You’re just looking for good results in your social interaction so that y...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2024
2 points

No, it’s about being a shamed and it matters more what a Woman thinks about you than what a Man thinks about you. (At least if you are single) One had probably been rejected and felt like his stutte...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2024
1 points

I have the same problem with guys (22M, gay). Altough, to be honest, that has to to, at least partially, with the way my fostered dad behaved to me....

Social & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Dating & RomanceTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
1 points

Do you also stutter with males? Do you maybe treat girls better, like putting on pedestal which can create more stress, instead treating them like equal humans, so if she will have problem with your s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
2 points

I’ve been made fun of, avoided, and seen the faces people have made to the reaction of my stuttering. It’s hard to just not think about it. I hide it so well tho. It’s like women will come up and talk...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
1 points

It is understandable because i also have this type of trauma. It developed when i was studying in co education , and girls tend to make more fun of me as compared to boys. I am not misogynist but i am...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
1 points

lol it’s normal when ur young or not mature yet. You’ll stutter infront everyone sometimes like all people do. Women aren’t different, u probably just don’t understand them yet or something...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Dating & RomanceValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
20 points

Why are you guys mocking him? You surely do understand what he means by that. He means that talking to women and going into a date normally requires you to be fluent otherwise you will fail at that si...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
4 points

I think he framed the question a bit wrong , I think with stutter also comes anxiety to how people perceive and at 24 when you're out to seek friends and relationships , it's almost a nightmare for St...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterNov 12, 2024
10 points

I can't speak to women

I can't speak to women Hi Im Mohammad(24) i have stutter since 5 and is so hard for me to communicate with female person any suggestion? ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterNov 12, 2024
18 points

How stuttering affects your personal perception of sex and eroticism?

How stuttering affects your personal perception of sex and eroticism? Hello everyone, I am a man (29) with mild stuttering blocks, sometimes I can hide them easily to the point that you think I don't ...

Social & RelationshipsSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Dating & RomancePhysical TensionAnxiety & Social Judgment