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commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
1 points

He’s in band too! He really likes it and works really hard at it. I think that’s where he has the majority of acquaintances, (ie: people who will say “hi” etc), but no one super close yet to hang out ...

Social & Relationships
Friendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
4 points

There's plenty of bad therapy out there that can reinforce stigma by praising and prioritizing fluency. Finding a great SLP can be helpful (if he needs it, which a great SLP who understands stuttering...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Negative Therapy / HarmMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
6 points

My stutter is fairly mild and usually only gets bad in stressful situations. Thinking back to middle school/high schooll, things like presentations, reading aloud… those sorts of things were awful. I ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic LifeStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
1 points

This is wild. I’m sorry you had to deal with that....

commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
3 points

Thank you so much for sharing your experience! It's rough when you don't know if this is a common experience or not when parenting a child that stutters. We don't know any other families that have kid...

Parent & CaregiverSocial & Relationships
Early Concern & OnsetParent Emotions & GuiltFamily Dynamics+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
4 points

Omg is this about my son?? I could’ve written this. My son had a very hard time transitioning in middle school. Finally in 7th he made some friends. My son has never had too many friends and I didn’t ...

Parent & CaregiverSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Family DynamicsSchool & Academic LifeFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
3 points

Good advice. We definitely try to make a home a stress-free zone! He's a regular chatterbox at home, luckily. I hope that means he feels he can be his true self at least somewhere....

Parent & Caregiver
Home Support
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
9 points

just don't make it to hard for him. when I was that age my mom would blame me for it, or say that i'm not trying hard enough to fix it...

Parent & CaregiverIdentity & Disability
Parent Emotions & GuiltStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
1 points

She was obnoxious, but at least she showed who she really is rather quickly. Saved you from wasting time on her!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
4 points

I gave a presentation yesterday and some of my friends still think I'm just nervous, as well as the teacher. Told them I am a natural stutterer. I speak like this and I can't control it. I was confide...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
postr/StutterDec 10, 2025
19 points

Parent of 13 year old son of stutters

Parent of 13 year old son of stutters Hello, I am a parent of a 13 year old son who stutters. Ever since he hit middle school, he has not really taken up with a friend group or any super close friend...

Emotional ExperienceParent & CaregiverSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFamily DynamicsFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
6 points

You deserve to talk in a way that makes you not feel shame for speaking that way. You deserve to be listened to even if you stutter when you’re saying it. You also deserve the patience and space to be...

Coping & AdvocacyCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterDec 10, 2025
17 points

(rent) I HATE WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO DICTATE MY SPEECH I HATE IT SO MUCH

(rent) I HATE WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO DICTATE MY SPEECH I HATE IT SO MUCH Like I know talk with a stutterer can also be difficult for the listener, cause the words became sometimes hard to understand, but ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
1 points

For me it’s either I’m really confident or I’m in one of my good 2-3 weeks where I only stutter very infrequently. Otherwise, I stutter and stammer every 2-3 sentences....

Causes & Variability
Severity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
1 points

Yes and it’s infuriating and I’m over 40 years old. Been happening my whole life and I really have yet to figure out why. I prepare or don’t prepare, it doesn’t see to have an impact....

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
1 points

well that's usually where it comes from...

commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
2 points

The rage I feel when I hear that. I feel the pain...

commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
2 points

That's true. I also do this when none of my other methods work. It's annoying and when my co workers ask me ask me to sing what I want to say...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Strategic Swearing/CursingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
3 points

I've had a similar childhood as yours. I know how you feel. People think we stutter just because we're nervous. The truth that no one else sees is that anything that reminds us of that trauma does not...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
4 points

I believe it’s a genetic trait which can be triggered / switched on by trauma. Both my bother and I stutter and we had a pretty abusive father. Lots of children have had abusive upbringings but do n...

Causes & Variability
Genetic & Family FactorsTrauma & PsychologicalNeurological & Brain