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postr/StutterDec 9, 2024
34 points

Anyone encounter a stutter kink?

Anyone encounter a stutter kink? I once dated two women (separately) that loved my stutter. They were all about it. They adored it. However, to them my personality and who I was, was secondary to my s...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
1 points

"Hi, my stutter sometimes prevents me from talking to pretty woman, but you look like someone I HAD to talk to" or something like that. Then ask an open ended question. Turn the perceived negative i...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
2 points

Dating apps is a numbers game. 5 dates in 4 months isn't bad. The more people you meet the more likely you'll meet someone who is a better match for you. Don't look at it as finding a person who'll to...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
2 points

I saw a lot of great advices here already, but maybe i can add this one : when you stutter with a girl, laugh at it. Self-deprecation brings a good atmosphere 🙂...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
2 points

I know it's a real challenge. If i can give a tip, when you stutter with a girl, laugh at it. Self-deprecation brings a good atmosphere....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
3 points

Hey! Check my post history, I started a great thread on this last week that contained a lot of useful advice. Stuttering will NOT prevent you from being successful in dating. Online dating is a bit m...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
1 points

Just sharing another answer i gave here : https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/s/D2e93GAmiS I felt the same way at your age, but beleive me, things change. You're entering an age where more and more wom...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
2 points

My purpose isn't to flex my luck, but just to tell you it's possible. I was a severe stutterer. I'm almost 40 now, and it's the 18th year i live with with my girlfriend. We have a 2 years old child al...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
0 points

Why not? I stutter a lot and I can see someone getting awkward about it on a date, but my friends don't really seem to mind it...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
2 points

I agree with this. Tell them you stutter while talking on the app. NOT the first time you meet them. If someone doesn’t know you stutter before you do, there’s always going to be some amount of ‘shoc...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
1 points

I would definitely recommend being up front about your stammer either in your profile (possibly with some light humour) or in your messages. That way you’ll be more relaxed as you know that they know ...

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postr/StutterDec 9, 2024
11 points

Dating and Dating apps

Dating and Dating apps Hi, I am 28M. I have never had a relationship. About a year ago, I was on a few dating apps. I was able to get 5 dates within 4months. All of the dates were awful, as soon as...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2024
4 points

That I might most probably die single. The amount of efforts it takes to talk to a girl without possibly making a fool of yourself is too high. Stuttering is one of the worst things ever, no one apart...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2024
2 points

Damn.. you really lost 100 pounds? Man that's awesome! That speaks to your dedication and grit. Women like that in a man. Maybe put that on your dating profile. Mention that you like working out and i...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2024
2 points

Yo bro, if you’re not getting matches on a dating app which isn’t uncommon for most guys. I’d start by working on yourself. Not just for the app, but to optimize your appearance in general. Figure out...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2024
4 points

Tell her you stutter the most in front of pretty women...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2024
3 points

If it’s a conversation just look her in the eye when she’s talking and REALLY listen. Just staring at someone your not talking to would be bad haha...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2024
5 points

I was once told by a women, "I wonder what you stutter would be like having sex?" Stuttering is not the problem....

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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2024
8 points

Would you want advice on your online dating profile? I saw that you don’t say you stutter on it but I did and still had success from online dating and it led to my current relationship of 3 years....

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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2024
26 points

90% flirting or dating just starts from being around people for other reasons, and realizing you like their vibe. Go to parties, events, or clubs for things that interest you with the intent to make f...

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