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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
1 points

Yo man don’t worry about girls, they will come for sure. Worry about Nursing school and get that bag. Nursing is dominated by woman. Keep going TRUST...

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
1 points

You are way way way more than your stutter. If you like a girl, go talk to her. She won’t care about your stutter if she likes you as well. But If you’re trying to get her to like you merely by smoo...

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
2 points

For sure. My dad stuttered and he was married to my mom for over 50 years. I stutter and I’ve been married for over 27 years. My daughter (a college student) stutters and she dates regularly. It’s po...

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
1 points

Stuttering didn’t do that. It’s you. YOU’RE counting yourself out. I’m a female paramedic firefighter that can’t even say my name sometimes. But I go out in the world socialize, get money, travel & go...

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
2 points

🙄 another “Woe is me. No girl will like me because of my stutter”. No she does like you cuz you’re throwing a pity party & not exuding confidence. Since you already counted yourself out, stick to you...

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
6 points

Focus on yourself. Go to the gym. Dress well. Smile at people. It's not about being able to talk, it's about having a vibe...

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
22 points

Don’t try to impress them. That’s a turn off. Just do exactly what you want with no apologies and they will hate and LOVE you for it....

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
34 points

That's weird phrasing. Just be yourself and be friendly. Don't try and force anything. I've always had my best success when I got to know someone, at least a little, first....

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
2 points

I (53), and others, have succeeded despite our severe stutters. Sure, I missed out on some amazing opportunities, but I still found a way to achieve almost all of my goals in some notable capacity. I ...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
10 points

Feel ya brother. You are not alone. Chronic illness + stutter is not fun at all. Life is slowly starting to turn around for me after a long, long time. There is hope...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
1 points

Well maybe like stress related pain? I guess what worked for me was realizing it couldn't actually hurt me, and that ultimately I *could* power through, as bad as it felt....

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
5 points

Damn bro, you are only 17 you are nowhere near being a loser. Things will work out just keep your head up. You need to get speech therapy, this helped me drastically at your age....

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
0 points

You can get speech therapy through your high school as well as speak with a guidance counselor. But, you have to reach out first. No one is coming to save you. You have to advocate for yourself and yo...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
4 points

That doesn't sound too bad. I leaned more towards communications since I do love writing. Yes, obviously, every day isn't going to be the same, especially in PR, when there is a crisis or when reach...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
1 points

Well I’ve always have a moderate stutter since childhood. After speech therapy as an adult, I gained some fluency but relapsed back to the point where I was perhaps 60% fluent. After researching the...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
6 points

Man I'm two years older than you and I feel everything you just said. My stutter is very severe, and I have mild autism, so I struggle with a lot of things in life. I spent all of middle and high scho...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
13 points

We don’t really know what other people’s struggles are. A lot of people have burdens they would trade in a heartbeat for stuttering. Everybody has something. It’s not what we’re burdened with but how ...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
10 points

Well, I think the most important point is this: It’s not your fault! If you were blind, you wouldn’t feel ashamed of your disability. Same thing for deafness or paralysis or any other disability. Peop...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
3 points

I went to an Ivy League and work as a software engineer. Not bragging (going to those places will teach how full of shit they are and the reputation means nothing) but I would’ve thought my life now i...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
9 points

bruv i know you’re still in highschool but people’s tolerance of stuttering will be better after highschool. it’s hard to accept and work around but you can’t let the stutter get the best of you. i pr...

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