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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2025
17 points

To be honest I don’t know. Sometimes the block is so heavy and I feel so helpless that I wish for someone to pull me out of my misery and shame. But it is not so easy. Feeling so ashamed is part of t...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2025
3 points

Yes it's annoying asf. It gets soooooo old and tiresome. I guess we must keep trying and going forward though. ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2025
1 points

You've got to play the hand you're dealt. Just like any other person living with a disability, the world is cruel to us and too them. The best we can do is learn to live with it. Personally, I don't...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
4 points

for me the key difference is whether it's affecting your voice, or other parts you you physically i.e. heavy blinks/face scrunching, body movements, trouble breathing, etc. in an effort to get the wor...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesPhysical TensionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
2 points

There is 'stuttering severity' scale which measures the percentage of syllables stuttered if you want an objective measure of outward stuttering. However it doesn't take into account a lot of other ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
2 points

so if i say less that id like to because of my fear of stuttering that would be severe ?...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
10 points

Severity isn’t about how much you stutter, but about how much it affects decisions that you make; for example, saying nothing or less than you’d like to because of your fear of stuttering....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
1 points

Same exact situation as you. I have a more severe stutter, practically muted because of it. Been trying to get a job but I don't think it would be possible for me as of right now. All the jobs near me...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyAdvice Requests+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
1 points

It is a complex issue, it's like being a handicapped and being not a handicapped, questioning a mature would solve our stutterers problems someday. Work on yourself, do what make thinks you that solve...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
2 points

I understand where you're coming from, and your feelings are valid. I've wondered what "acceptance" means for quite a while with regards to my stutter. Is it just not caring? Is it constantly picking ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
3 points

Then what else are you going to do? Sit there and cry? Nobody can help you besides yourself. There's no cure, no magic pill, no nothing. Acceptance is the only way to retain some modicum of happiness...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
2 points

People are more disaffected than ever and doomer stuff grabs at so many stutters and says "you can't do anything, you'll never be perfect, give up." I try not to regal people with my struggle or get h...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
3 points

Yeah because like what else are we supposed to say? Yes it fucking sucks but there's nothing better for you than just trying to live your life despite the problems, expose yourself. Locking yourself ...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
3 points

I was watching a movie "About Time" and I was wondering if getting to live the same moment twice by reversing time could help us talk more fluently? Knowing at which words we get a block. Haha. I comp...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyOverthinking & MonitoringSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
12 points

This. As far as modern science knows, there is no better option or treatment known at the moment for stuttering. Hell, we don't even know the cause - how are we supposed to treat it, then? It's a ho...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
3 points

It's not that your problems don't exists or people have told you the right thing for you, the exposure therapy advice sounds like bad, but you also can't expect people to be able to provide you with p...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
11 points

I feel so heard right now 😭 I’m in the same exact boat, I block on almost every word I say and the blocks last between 10-30 seconds. Getting a full sentence out fluently is AMAZING for me. I feel...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Blocks & StoppagesHelplessness & AgencySeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
40 points

I agree. when it stops you from getting jobs and having basic conversations, there's no way you can accept it. we don't get disability for it so it does affect us our livelyhoods....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJul 24, 2025
79 points

I'm tired of this community gaslighting people.

I'm tired of this community gaslighting people. Why everyone advocating for people to just "accept" their stutter? Do you know that some people are simply not capable of that? Y'all must not have a se...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
1 points

I apologize for being a downer. It’s really ridiculous. Yeah, I want to move forward but I don’t know where to go...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency