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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2025
2 points

hahah yea. I mean if I was a billionaire no way I would give up that lmao. But even now I survive only cuz of I don't have a partner and kids nor a car. While I have my high education I can only work ...

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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2025
0 points

Think that as stutterers we cannot ensure a good future either, even if we have studies. Poverty will always be worse but stuttering condemns you to a miserable and unstable life....

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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2025
1 points

You are lucky that you have been able to study, you have to think that you would not have studies either because you would be poor. You probably wouldn't be as happy as you think. but this is not a re...

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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2025
5 points

yea. I would be much happier. I would still have my education and without the stutter I would be able to land a job in a field I studied my whole life. I could go to dates and not see a cringing face ...

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postr/StutterSep 2, 2025
2 points

Would you trade being poor for not being a stutterer?

Would you trade being poor for not being a stutterer? The other day I was thinking about what I would be willing to give up in exchange for not being a stutterer. I thought... Would I trade it for ano...

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commentr/StutterSep 1, 2025
1 points

But why can’t I do them anymore? I feel like I am too old. I just want my life back . I also have physical pain from stuttering. I always feel worthless . I don’t know who I am ....

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commentr/StutterSep 1, 2025
3 points

I understand you. I even stop going to college because of my stuttering. I got traumatized in my senior high school days and here I am. There's nothing we can do, honestly. There's no cure for our spe...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2025
3 points

You have built a very independent life. So much so, that others exclude you. That is the air you are giving off. You don't run in their circles. You are not in the click. And it may stems from cocooni...

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postr/StutterAug 31, 2025
11 points

Anyone else here kicking ass financially but rotting away from loneliness and isolation?

Anyone else here kicking ass financially but rotting away from loneliness and isolation? I am a single guy in my 40’s. I own a million dollar house, drive a $80,000 convertible, retirement accounts f...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2025
1 points

One of my biggest regrets is allowing it to control me all my life. I feel like im an extrovert that learned to be an introvert out of fear of stuttering. It saddens me thinking about how much differe...

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commentr/Stutter_remissionAug 31, 2025
1 points

In my opinion: I may be wrong, but here’s my take. Perhaps Brocklehurst (PhD) relied on confidence to execute the speech plan. If so, subconsciously his brain was constantly checking (i.e., eval...

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postr/Stutter_remissionAug 31, 2025
1 points

In your own words. Does stuttering affect your self-esteem/confidence, and if so, how do you deal with it?

In your own words. Does stuttering affect your self-esteem/confidence, and if so, how do you deal with it? In my opinion: If we stutter more, it could lead to reduced confidence in our ability to exe...

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commentr/Stutter_remissionAug 31, 2025
1 points

If kids become more cautious in speech execution (in a maladaptive way) in response to the need to become more respectful, or formal (etc), this might increase their protection mechanism to express th...

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commentr/Stutter_remissionAug 31, 2025
1 points

I think that past experiences might result in becoming more cautious in executing speech. If we maladaptively link this cautiousness to speech execution (by unnecessarily learning to need unnecessary ...

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commentr/Stutter_remissionAug 31, 2025
1 points

In my opinion: Even when stuttering feels “random” or unpredictable, there are actually layers, built from past experience.. running subconsciously. And also, I think we construct a narrative around ...

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postr/StutterAug 30, 2025
13 points

How do I stop stuttering

How do I stop stuttering I'm 21, I've been stuttering ever since I was in kindergarten and have been beaten by my family and others because of it. When I was in highschool it started to get better to...

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postr/StutterAug 30, 2025
3 points

Stutter

Stutter "How do you have control over your stutter? I'm just so tired of it." ...

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postr/StutterAug 27, 2025
8 points

I think id be better of as someone else yk

I think id be better of as someone else yk I get this feeling a lot, that maybe I’d be better off living someone else’s life, where I could speak normally and fluently. People always say that everyon...

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postr/StutterAug 27, 2025
7 points

Stuttering. It’s ruining me

Stuttering. It’s ruining me I’m a 16 year old (M). And I’ve been stuttering for years. I remember as a child I was a French prodigy I would talk fluently and stuff but now I can still talk that way bu...

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postr/StutterAug 27, 2025
21 points

How much of an impact has stuttering had on your life?

How much of an impact has stuttering had on your life? I have always tried to work past it and move along but I cant help to notice how much it's debiliated my life. I think of all the conversations...

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