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commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
2 points

>I'm currently watching this video by Mort Cooper. He poses that the reason we stutter, is because we don't want to stutter. There are two elements that could lead to a speech block: 1. not focus...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
1 points

Why do bad blocks make you frustrated and angry? The answer may answer your last question. For me I had no idea how much fear I really had until my 30s. I accepted that stuttering was a part of me a...

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Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
1 points

Awesome reply and very detailed! ​ >*"What specific 'game plan' would you advise? Could you break it down into a few steps, what would it look like?"* I think, it may be effective to ...

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Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
1 points

You are focusing on the blocks and how stuttering is bad. Originally, I talked about "acceptance of fear and negative emotions". You turned it into "acceptance of stuttering". In my last post I aske...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
2 points

U said 29/F Then U should talk to this wth ur patner About ur insecurities stammering Anxiety fear of rejection and U should consult therapist And Remove this shit from ur Fucking mind and feel like ...

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postr/StutterApr 23, 2023
1 points

My daily life as stammerer 🙂

My daily life as stammerer 🙂 My Every mrng routune I woke up with lot of anxiety fear depressed lonely And heart racing tension don't know yy I feel this everyday every fuccking second Like hell I ne...

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Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
2 points

>*"What do I do? How do I maintain the belief that I am worthy or can actually successfully function in this world? I can do so much and have so much talent and skill but feel I will die with every...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
1 points

Honestly, thank you for your reply, it means a lot. I will start on searching way to reduce my stress level and boost my self-confidence....

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Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

You seem to have a bit of dis fluency. You becoming very conscious of it, and being worried about it, makes the speech more dis fluent. Don’t be bothered about it, minor disfluency wouldnt matter much...

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postr/StutterApr 22, 2023
2 points

Don't know what to think. Help.

Don't know what to think. Help. I'm 19. When I started college a year ago I met a guy, he's the best friend I have and one of the best people I know, he stutters (in a kinda severe way) and I learned ...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
2 points

Would start stuttering again from nervousness someway or form 😂...

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
1 points

How am I supposed to achieve what I want with my stutter if I can’t talk or get past a block? And I have accepted my stutter since I was younger but now it’s actually effecting me more harder...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
1 points

This is what I struggle with - how do you deal with the trigger of not being understood/misrepresenting yourself? I think for me that’s a big hurdle. You seem like an intelligent person - how do you r...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

I have never really stuttered in the true sense of the word, but i have had complete silent blocks due to physchological trauma. My advice to you is pretty much to observe how other people converse. I...

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Trauma & PsychologicalOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
5 points

Let me offer a different perspective on this issue. Have you ever thought that your speech problems are partly caused by your perfectionistic tendencies? Have you actually really listed carefully to o...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

When I'm able to be more confident, I'm more fluent. So much of this is chicken and the egg stuff....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterApr 22, 2023
23 points

Losing hope

Losing hope (29/F) Really needing some advice or perspective from anyone here. I feel like my stammer is getting in the way of me actualising everything I want in my life. I’m starting to lose hope ...

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Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

A lot can argue between causation and correlation but if I had fluency, I’d be more confident. More so, than being confident would lead to more fluency. Because at the end of the day, you still have a...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterApr 22, 2023
8 points

When you don’t stutter in your head but end up having the worst stutter actually speaking

When you don’t stutter in your head but end up having the worst stutter actually speaking I was at the gym today and saw a mutual friend in the mirror from afar. I knew he saw me and was going to come...

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Anticipating StutteringBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 22, 2023
4 points

Strategy to reduce anticipation anxiety & checklist

Strategy to reduce anticipation anxiety & checklist # Strategy: **Situation**: If we speak a feared word, then we often anticipate negative listeners responses or anticipate stuttering. Non-stut...

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