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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
2 points

I think you can hire a voice trainer to help change timbre and pitch. But imo, confidence and charisma are the bigger factors which, ironically, are harder to improve....

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
2 points

Girlfriend? What about wife? I stutter and been married twice, had more that average number of ex girl friends a forty Yr old has. Women I find are more sympathetic and don't care about your stutt...

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
3 points

If a girl really likes you then they will look past it as a feature of how you talk, not necessarily that there is something wrong with you...

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
5 points

I didn't take the poll since wife isn't an option. I have a moderate to severe stutter and have been married for 18 years. Before my wife I had a few LTRs as well. Casual dating was never an option fo...

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
3 points

Having a stutter sucks, but showing confidence in the face of a speech block somehow attracts the ladies....

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
11 points

I'm currently single, but I've dated recently and in the past. A lot of girls have said my stutter was "cute" (hearing this felt more demeaning than positive, even though they meant it to be something...

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
1 points

If you love someone and they love you back, you shouldn’t be scared to stutter around them, if you love someone you should feel comfortable around them and not feel scared to show who you really are, ...

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
4 points

We all have our different journeys and for me, once I stopped thinking about my stutter and just lived my life, the more happier I became. That's not to say I don't have my daily struggles but I choo...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
44 points

I think some people just assume that people are horrible and won't give them the time of day. Having a stutter is actually really handy when dating as it enables you to filter out the nasty ones str...

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
6 points

It sounds like me that you’re still learning to accept that you have a stutter... I’m also on the same page. I’ve learned to brush things off after it’s happened. For example, I’m about to go out fo...

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
26 points

Lol I have a really bad stutter, but I’m also great at playing musical instruments. She saw me playing and we kind of communicated that way and then once we talked she made me feel more comfortable so...

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
2 points

Once or twice minimum. We are like a football club without the foodball and a lot of traditions. I know sbout 10 or 15 well enough to hang out with them alone. And about the stuttering: they accep...

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2022
3 points

That's so huge! Nursing student here. Super proud of you! You've got this! I think it's very important to also know that it's okay to stutter. Take your time to say your words, to pronounce the words,...

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2022
1 points

It still kind of is a debate because some people (so far 108 people) STILL chose to get rid of their stutter basically saying they don't care about the money/how much it is (which i respect)....

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2022
2 points

I would get rid of it,i would rather be the poorest man in the world but still talk... or do i...

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2022
1 points

My stutter isn’t that bad, but even in moments when it seems to be a bit worse than usual, it doesn’t really bother me as much as it use to....

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2022
2 points

You absolutely belong there! I bet everyone would much rather be operated by top-notch surgeon that stutters than by someone that is fluent but sucks at his/her job....

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2022
3 points

It’s not our stutters that effect us it’s how we perceive them...

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2022
10 points

I earn about 1.5+ million , I have an electrical engineering job that pays 100k+. I own a successful Amazon business with about 8 employees and i own 2 franchised drink shops with about 30 employees c...

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2022
3 points

5 people so far basically said "screw the money i hate my stutter" so i guess its not too much to them (which i respect)...

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