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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
5 points

In principle I don’t believe in apologizing for stuttering, but sometimes I do to break the tension… but I don’t really mean it as an apology, just like a way of kind of laughing at myself and taking ...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
1 points

Yea I do unfortunately. It helps with the blocking of my words but I don’t mean to apologize. I guess it’s become a habit and even my therapist told me to stop apologizing since there’s nothing to apo...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
3 points

I always do by instinct. the person i'm talking to always says i dont have to apologize. something i really need to work on admittedly......

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
1 points

I do apologize when I’m talking to someone I’m not very close to or I respect them, because it helps me to help the block. I also cough fakely to help me “start fresh” again....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
1 points

Nice! My family refuses to order for me and think it’s because I need to break out of my comfort zone. I’m 24 years old and I can promise I’ve tried more things than they can even imagine. Yet they be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
0 points

Try explaining tha you can still do things yourself? I know it’s easier said that done. Or maybe just do things by yourself and let them see you do those acfitovites....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
10 points

These are fantastic concepts. However they may be inaccessible to some, due to differences in halos our bodies handle stress. If that’s you, there are more tangible steps you can take Practice vol...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
1 points

Same here! Since stuttering isnr really common, I love educating people about it rather than them just assuming that I'm stupid....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2024
9 points

Personally I appreciate when people are straightforward and ask me about it instead of pretending it doesn't exist, it helps us communicate more effectively together....

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2024
1 points

To be clear, when I say "being total idiots" I am attributing it to incompetence rather than malice. I do think it's pretty stupid behaviour, though - not malicious, but still stupid. IMO being taken ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Stigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2024
4 points

So... fixing your self-esteem isn't a one and done thing. This will probably take a lot of work and effort from your side. If it's possible for you to see a therapist, that may be worth trying, althou...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Medicalization / NeurodiversitySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2024
0 points

How do you expect to educate people and change if you’re willing to allow them to treat you differently solely because you happen to stutter. If someone is disrespectful or if you feel slightly uncomf...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2024
3 points

So sorry for this experience, I have had the same thing with saying my name, it got so bad I had to change my first name to something I could say, people just don’t understand, if I was you and you me...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2024
0 points

Are you being represented? Let you counsel know and how you’d like to address it if it becomes an ‘issue’ mainly so they don’t say something dumb like speak slowly, or any other advice’ you don’t need...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Seeking TherapySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2024
2 points

Lean into your stutter at court. Turn a weakness into a strength. You might elicit a little sympathy, which could work in your favor....

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2024
0 points

I get this on the daily at my work, it literally makes me want to lose my shit. I work as customer service staff which involves handling a lot of money and unique tasks but they try to make ME feel li...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & AngerEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2024
1 points

I just...talk to people the same way I talk to anyone else regardless of disability or conditions? If they aren't at the same conversation level as me i'll use simpler vocab to accommodate them but yo...

Community & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2024
2 points

That’s too abrasive. You’re going to embarrass people and put them on the spot, which is going to make them want to run away. Don’t imply that they think you’re an idiot. Likely, they don’t. They are ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2024
0 points

I don’t suggest responding in a way that makes people feel as if they have done something wrong. People will want to get away and avoid, when they have been made to feel wrong or bad. It’s better to s...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2024
2 points

Yes they are, and it sucks, a lot. But surely there are tons of conditions that YOU are ignorant about. Have you educated yourself about the best way to respond to the whole spectrum of human differen...

Community & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries