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commentr/StutterApr 7, 2025
1 points

So when I was at that age, a little older actually, it really came to a head for me.  I thought about it all day, night, next morning, it was my scapegoat for everything and it got to the point where ...

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commentr/StutterApr 7, 2025
1 points

Thanks for the reply. Better late than never! I understand what you mean. Recent failures or successes do affect me. It's normal. Their effect has been heavily lessened, though. In the past I was muc...

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postr/StutterApr 6, 2025
14 points

I'm gonna try to explain stuttering beyond the face value and how understanding it has helped me move long past it, whether I stutter or not.

I'm gonna try to explain stuttering beyond the face value and how understanding it has helped me move long past it, whether I stutter or not. I just turned 40, I stuttered since I was 3 years old. I ...

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commentr/StutterApr 6, 2025
1 points

Thanks!  The practice wasn't really trying to say it just right because I know we know how to speak it and don't need to relearn it and can probably say it a thousand times over once they hang up or a...

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commentr/StutterApr 6, 2025
5 points

It's a cycle where you may outgrow caring over it which makes it easier and lessens its severity, you care about other things and so does everyone else.   We are wired to worry over things and overt...

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commentr/StutterApr 5, 2025
2 points

What actually helped me improve my speech the most was the day when i stopped caring much and didnt let it define me anymore. Nervousness makes your speech much worse and if you step into every conver...

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postr/StutterApr 5, 2025
1 points

does it get better?

does it get better? I'm 14 and have a stutter, it's not much but it is there. Lately I have been thinking about what will I do when I grow older. Did it improve for you guys or did you simply accept i...

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postr/StutterApr 3, 2025
7 points

“Don’t Avoid Opportunity” - As stutterers we sometimes need to be more courageous! People opinions do not matter. Our goal is not to be fluent but to be understood! Be true to yourself and the right people will appreciate you . Full Video out on Youtube @StutterChat

“Don’t Avoid Opportunity” - As stutterers we sometimes need to be more courageous! People opinions do not matter. Our goal is not to be fluent but to be understood! Be true to yourself and the right p...

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commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
1 points

Until it’s not. I know easier said than done. A deconstruct and reconstruct helps. Might not solve the stutter, but can impact the foundation of self, which shifts everything....

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commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
3 points

Maybe you’re right where you need to be and the power comes when you let go of trying be someone else 🤷‍♂️...

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postr/StutterApr 2, 2025
13 points

things are good!

things are good! i am going to share in short, 21M i am single child of a single mom my mom abused me since i was born (both psychological and physical) for the last 4 months i am living with my uncle...

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commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
2 points

Hi so it went like this, as I said im on thid journey for a year now a bit more. And there were a lot of tackles and breakdowns along the way, at the end tho after realizing it its like everything cli...

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commentr/StutterApr 1, 2025
5 points

The person who has the most control over your mind is the person who angers you. Anyone who would mock a stutterer clearly has their own set of emotional and mental baggage they’re dealing with, and i...

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commentr/StutterApr 1, 2025
5 points

There’s a lot of people who aren’t further in life than they want to be. You must embrace your stutter and be confident. Most people don’t care that you have a stutter. Just be yourself and make them ...

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commentr/StutterApr 1, 2025
1 points

I know the feeling. I think many here do too. From my experience, what has helped is to embrace it fully. I've had an amazing speech therapist who helped me understand that what I speak is valid, no m...

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commentr/StutterApr 1, 2025
5 points

Thanks, and yeah its quite like that. If i summarize the entirety of my journey the results and conclusions I achieved were thanks to willpower, I picked myself up and refused to give up when everyone...

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commentr/StutterApr 1, 2025
2 points

Hi, I’m really glad that you’ve overcome it. I hope to reach this reality as well. Maybe it is just a behavioral pattern, or maybe not—after all, they say self-suggestion is a powerful thing. I believ...

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commentr/StutterApr 1, 2025
4 points

I have finally after a year of battling it and with the help of chatgpt to understand better, I simply came to an understanding based on facts that no brain was designed to stutter, its mainly behavio...

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postr/StutterMar 31, 2025
3 points

When you start feeling like you have a lot to say in a short time...I remind myself I don't really have anything to say in particular

When you start feeling like you have a lot to say in a short time...I remind myself I don't really have anything to say in particular Today I'm driving home from work kind of excited and my mind is dr...

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commentr/StutterMar 29, 2025
2 points

I completely understand you, the mindset is a very difficult thing to change. But well, it takes time. I hope everything works out for the better, and who knows sooner or later, you might completely o...

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