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postr/StutterAug 10, 2025
1 points

being confident

being confident um hello, i’ve been struggling with a severe stutter since 1st grade and it only gotten worse since. my main struggle is speaking out loud in class i hate it with a passion and i be af...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterAug 6, 2025
7 points

Feeling very low

Feeling very low I graduate nursing school in a week and I feel like shit. I can’t even introduce who I am without blocking. I know I’m smart but I don’t feel smart when I talk. I know people in my nu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterAug 5, 2025
11 points

Struggle with the day to day.

Struggle with the day to day. Hello, I’ve stuttered my entire life I am 32 years old. I work in the healthcare industry and talk to people sometimes. My biggest struggle is saying my name, it’s like...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterAug 1, 2025
13 points

I just can’t accept stuttering in my life

I just can’t accept stuttering in my life Hey everyone, I know that I shouldn’t really vent on this subreddit but it is so difficult trying to stay positive about this impediment that I know I cannot ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2025
1 points

I’ve stuttered my whole life . When I was young I rarely talked because I was embarrassed.The funny thing is when I was young I always wanted to be a radio host but I knew my stuttering would hold me ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentEnergy & Biological RhythmsFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2025
2 points

I'm so sorry this happened to you, and I totally share your reaction, which I had so many times. I wish people would just consider that blocks, hesitations, and repetitions are due to stuttering, but ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerTrauma & Psychological+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2025
3 points

This was a few years back, but I I still remember it. I had another part time job at the time delivering. I was making a delivery to a medical building one afternoon. I walked in with the order, and I...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2025
2 points

My advice would be to reply simply, firmly, and sincerely "Please do not do that ever again. I have a stutter, and I can't help it". This, or close to it, has been my line for a long time. It usually...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2025
5 points

this one time i was in a job interview, there were 2 male interviewers infront of me and a female worker behind me, they askef their stupid questions and i stuttered alot, to the point where my chest ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2025
2 points

I only have met one in my 30 years of life. Many years ago, I was having a bad day at work and a guy tried talking to me, but I gave him a look like I was very annoyed and he walked away. I regret it ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2025
2 points

what? I have been stuttering my whole life and my name is one of the hardest words for me to say and I can tell you from experience that I would rather confront an a**hole and stutter while doing so,...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 28, 2025
18 points

I can’t keep it out of my head

I can’t keep it out of my head i am (24m) an intern doctor, in work i speak my third language started learning sice last summer, i dont feel comfortable speaking yet and with my stutter the thing is l...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAuthenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2025
11 points

Worst is when you can't even tell your name.. And I really don't like society blaming someone who commits suicide, saying that he/she didn't have to take such step.... Bullshit! No one really knows wh...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessSuicidal Ideation & High Distress+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2025
1 points

Not to mention the pressure you have to put on yourself to be good at your studies to create a sense of self worth. Otherwise feel like an idiot who can't communicate properly like a normal person......

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterJul 27, 2025
16 points

Another incident

Another incident Another person laughed at me today. For those of you that don’t know, I work in a cafe. How long is not really relevant. At was at the front, and this woman got my attention. She star...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2025
3 points

No. I am 53M, and if it weren't for my public school experiences, I wouldn't have had as thick of a skin that I have now. I was teased all through grade school, students and teachers alike. I went ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2025
8 points

I just wish someone would have given a shit and helped me build confidence rather than express their annoyance and be abusive… (Thanks Dad). My elementary school had a speech pathologist come in and...

Emotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerEarly Concern & Onset+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2025
1 points

But at least there is less chance of job loss as doctors are always required. I think stammering has decreased my self confidence too much. Anyways thank you very much for your reply....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2025
17 points

To be honest I don’t know. Sometimes the block is so heavy and I feel so helpless that I wish for someone to pull me out of my misery and shame. But it is not so easy. Feeling so ashamed is part of t...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2025
3 points

I've thought about that TTS, as well. I think people are more forgiving to those who literally cannot speak. Anything to reduce the stress & embarrassment would be nice. We don't need all this diffic...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentQuality of LifeListener Reactions