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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2025
18 points

I’m sorry you’re having to go through this. It hurts no matter how many times it happens. Ultimately you want to get to the point where it’s not nagging at you afterwards about what happened and isn’t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2025
1 points

This is just incorrect. There is research showing that in an interview, stutterers are perceived the same as non stutterers, if they disclose their stutter in an interview. "A lot of phobias and cau...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Research & ResourcesAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2025
1 points

I didn’t turn anything off, I still have doubts like anyone else, I also have developed the tools to process these feelings and push past them....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2025
1 points

Lots of internal work. This didn’t come over night. Therapy, lots of good friends, and lots of reading. I’m a huge fan of Brene Brown personally and love her social science research. You have to work ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
3 points

Oh, man. This is absolutely key. I stuttered like a mofo as a teen. Could barely talk. Therapy helped a ton. But I could still feel a block coming a mile away. Started using different words to avoid ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
12 points

GOD THANK YOU YES. Yesterday I posted here, asking for tips on dealing with stuttering, and you know what? All three people who answered me told me the same thing in different words: accept yourself. ...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2025
3 points

Someone on this subreddit said “it was a nerf from God”. Not sure why it resonated so much with me, but it helps to think of it that way....

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2025
6 points

Thanks it took me a long time but I genuinely like myself, I relate better to humanity, and I’ve fulfilled things professionally I could’ve never dreamed of as a teenager. I know I sound corny sometim...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2025
2 points

Ya don't be hard on yourself or feel pressure. Just relax maybe try and smile. Sometimes I Will try to improvise as much as possible. But I do not push thru blocks this reinforces those pathways....

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
postr/StutterMay 3, 2025
16 points

My personal way to cope with stutter (With some added religious perspective)

My personal way to cope with stutter (With some added religious perspective) Side story. I am a successful software engineer. Studied from top university in my city. Stuttering since 5. People often a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2025
1 points

Catch is you need to accept it. Like say what's worst that gonna happen? People will laugh? let them. People will judge? let them. In the end you need to build such a personality that they come to you...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2025
1 points

you can belive in a god without taking the bible literally. first you don't have to be christian. (you just came in and assumed they are, why?). secondly you can just choose to discredit the people wh...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2025
11 points

Im almost 33 years old, i have sttuter all of my life. I can tell that i have cry and suffer a lot, only recently i have accepted my condition and when i speak i try not to think that i sttuter. I ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2025
3 points

I’m trying to create a solution to the whole “fluency when speaking alone thing”, do you wanna theorize with me sometime? I absolutely hate stuttering and how much it drains you....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2025
2 points

I have not. I have recently had somewhat a break through with mine. It’s still there but it has become better. But there are times I wished I knew how to. I still might learn it. Whats it going to hu...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2025
3 points

You can be yourself even though you’ll probably never be fluent. Have self respect, don’t ever say things like this. You can still dress how you like, have the hairstyle you want and act the way you f...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2025
1 points

Confidence is built upon past experiences—on what reality has consistently shown us. In simple terms , you feel confident if and only if your behavior is rewarded. One would be foolish to convince the...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencyMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2025
10 points

Yes. Trying to change this pattern currently. I tend to talk with a “stutter filter” on constantly.. it’s like prison. But, good thing is, we can change our mindset and rewire our brains!...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Authenticity vs. MaskingMindset shiftNeurological & Brain
postr/StutterApr 30, 2025
0 points

Guys

Guys With all due respect ithink sttuters comed from low self esteem so for example if your fat and have social anxiety you would probably stutter istutter myself and there was nights that i slept cry...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterApr 30, 2025
28 points

confidence is the key

confidence is the key i think i figured it out. its confidence. we all really think why we cant speak to people the way we speak to ourself and the answer is due to our low self confidence and low sel...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception