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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2025
1 points

Gaslighting? That implies malicious intent. I'm proposing to you that the abuse you suffer is of your own making, due to your skewed perspective. That the real world isn't at all as hostile as you in...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2025
8 points

I’m not super handsome but I look good. But thats not why. It is because I choose not to let the stutter control me. You don’t choose to stutter, but you choose how it impacts your life...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2025
1 points

This is classic gaslighting. Just because I have a different opinion I should get help? Also who are you to tell me my opinion is skewed and unhealthy? Now you are implying the 70% of stutterers that ...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2025
2 points

You failed to answer either of my questions. I don't know you. I simply offered speculation because of your skewed perspective of how one might interact with people with disabilities. Not everyone ...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2025
-1 points

You don't know anything about me. The fact that 70% of stutters have suicidal ideation and your response to that is they all are all having a pity party is disgusting and ableist. If you have a severe...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2025
2 points

Not young. Nor did I have a mild stutter. We all have setbacks and obstacles in life. How you frame your life impacts how you live it. This "I'm in hell" BS is negativity that only serves to harm yo...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2025
5 points

“Who cares what other people think” is nonsense. If at a job interview the interviewer is convinced that stutterers have a mental illness, I will never get hired. Without a job how will I be able to b...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2025
2 points

The abuse one suffers from stuttering is largely self-abuse. When we stop the pity parties and we stop the doom-n-gloom outlooks, life gets better. Stuttering is only an obstacle "in every aspect of ...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2025
1 points

You must be very young or with a mild stutter. And thats what i used to think too. Now that i have work that requires alot of communication, school and a demanding social life, stuttering is a huge se...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2025
16 points

I have enormous sympathy for them because I understand what a terrible disability it is, reducing one to a fearful unconfident antisocial hermit with so much to give and no one to give it to....

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
7 points

Completely agree with the frist part. But this sentence "get busy living" is a ignorant statement, what do you mean by that, so by living life ignoring stuttering and being busy in other stuffs helpfu...

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
3 points

That what changes my daily mood i swear, when having an argument and i know i can't say anything i want so i have to end the argument....

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postr/StutterSep 20, 2025
345 points

Can you guys relate ?

Can you guys relate ? Dating itself isn't the issue. But the first step, the approach, the initial contact... A lot of missed opportunities because of the stutter. It's one of the rare situations wh...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAvoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2025
49 points

Job interviews. I'm unemployed cause the last interview I went to, the owner told the manager to tell me I don't have enough confidence for the job. I almost killed myself cause I was getting over thi...

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Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2025
2 points

Totally relate to this. I have messed up so many interviews due to this. Even if I know more than any other candidate in the job interview, there is only 10%(best case) chance that I would be selected...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2025
14 points

lol if you were rich than its gonna be ok you got money so you dont need anyone validation or compassion...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2025
1 points

Yeah It sucks, but it sucks even more for us stutterers. And there's nothing we can do....

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2025
1 points

Seriously??? ,at least you have money dude , you know as long as you have money , I prefer not to sympathize you that much , because " MONEY "solves most of problem the broke Stutterers faces , what ...

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commentr/StutterSep 17, 2025
1 points

Please reach out to this group. They have free online groups and meetings. Not having parental support in life is traumatizing, not having it as a kid who stutters is traumatizing and devastating. Fin...

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postr/StutterSep 17, 2025
8 points

My Stutter is Confusing, Looking for Help.

My Stutter is Confusing, Looking for Help. Hey everyone, I’m 22 and I’ve been stuttering since I was a kid. I’ve seen a few doctors over the years, but nothing’s really worked. The way I stutter is a...

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