You failed to answer either of my questions. I don't know you. I simply offered speculation because of your skewed perspective of how one might interact with people with disabilities. Not everyone with a severe stutter is socially crippled. It sounds like you choose those limits. IMO, that's no way to live. No where did I suggest that all people with stuttering are prone to pity parties. But if you felt that applies to you, that a "you" problem. You should consider getting help. Your perspectives on life and stuttering are unhealthy. They are also only as true as you allow them to be. Not everyone with a severe stutter allows their life to be miserable. Yours does not have to be. But you have to screw your head on straight if you want to move forward.