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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
3 points

So i'm on the other side of this, as I teach English online, mainly to little kids, and I have a stutter. I did work on Cambly a while back, and with Cambly, you can put in your profile that you have...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
2 points

i haven’t tried wearing a pin for my stutter specifically, but i have found pins to be effective at communicating other important things, so i would say go for it! honestly sounds like a great idea, i...

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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
1 points

There’s a part of PWS that wants to hide the problem. They despise the stuttering and its inefficient communication, embarrassment, and wondering if their speech will work at any given needed moment....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
2 points

Sorry that your going thru this you are not alone we are all here for you I’m 35 and I remember school days having to present yourself was my worst nightmare but guess what I made it thru and so will ...

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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
2 points

I remember when my stutter was really bad in middle school I'd show people my key chain that has my name on it that I got from vacation somewhere. Girls wear their names on necklaces don't they? I thi...

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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
3 points

Like people would figure out I do in 2 seconds anyway, it would make people scared to talk to me, but telling people that don't catch on works....

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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
3 points

It's almost like if you put a bumper sticker that says "new driver" on your car, people might be more mean to you, right? It's only recently that I tried to admit to new people upfront that I have a s...

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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
3 points

Agreed specifically at places that’s not needed but again if it takes the anxiety away and helps then by all means wear it whenever u feel like it… let’s just normalize this same way society has norma...

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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
2 points

I think something like a name tag pin can be cute, it's common in workplaces. It's helpful if you intend to introduce yourself and talk to people, I wouldn't wear it ALL the time lol....

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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
4 points

I used to have a thing that said my name and important stuff for school and important stuff like an id kinda thing when it was really bad but I feel like it would just make me everyone else more conti...

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Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
2 points

I like the pin idea also with my name so I wouldn’t have to pull the card out every time I just kno how society is and would prob get weird stares until it becomes the norm but idk what are y’all’s th...

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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
3 points

That's actually a good idea. I work in the creative field and I get to know people through acquaintances so it hasn't been too big of a problem for me, but if I got air-dropped into a group of total s...

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postr/StutterJan 15, 2025
9 points

Has anyone tried wearing a pin that says “i have stutter” in social gatherings?

Has anyone tried wearing a pin that says “i have stutter” in social gatherings? One of my goals in 2025 is to make more friends outside of work, so I’m thinking about going to social gatherings like g...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
3 points

I like to use it when I say something that could make the other person uncomfortable, like I stutter a lot, so I feel like I'm making myself "vulnerable" (it's maybe a bad vision that I have of myself...

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postr/StutterJan 14, 2025
7 points

I think my friend (who also has a speech impediment) was tearing up because I told him that my family still makes fun of my stutter

I think my friend (who also has a speech impediment) was tearing up because I told him that my family still makes fun of my stutter Idk for certain because he’s definitely rough around the edges. A ni...

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postr/StutterJan 13, 2025
1 points

Did I indirectly make my friend uncomfortable by talking about something sad?

Did I indirectly make my friend uncomfortable by talking about something sad? My friend and I are both applying to grad school. We were in the library studying with another friend, and he asked us if...

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commentr/StutterJan 13, 2025
5 points

Just responding here to say that I have been stuttering severely since I was 4 years old (im in college now) and in my experience almost all of my teachers in middle school and highschool were willing...

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commentr/StutterJan 13, 2025
2 points

Admittedly, I have a mild stutter. When I mention to friends and co-workers (people with whom I've spent a lot of time but are not family), the say they didn't know I stutter. With complete strangers,...

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commentr/StutterJan 13, 2025
0 points

Firstly, I think the first thing we should do is acceptance e.g., understanding that others don't care about our stuttering. Yet, I'm not sure how most people view this in terms of empathy or sympathy...

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commentr/StutterJan 13, 2025
2 points

I have that too, I can't say my name. I fix that by not saying my name outright, I don't say "Lee", I say "my name is lee" or "the names Lee". That's all a personal thing and what works with each p...

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