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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
2 points

There’s no doubt that both autism and stuttering are life changing disabilities. However, I would challenge you to look at it from a new perspective. Many people find an identity in autism and stutter...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Fluency TechniquesAcceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
4 points

The only thing they have in common is that they are both disabilities that do not have a cure. Any parent who has an autistic child has spent many nights praying for a cure, wondering how their child ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Medicalization / NeurodiversityQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
1 points

I wish I had an answer to that. I already graduated 7 years ago(damn I’m old) but I always stayed to myself and I usually forget about a few hours later anyways...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
School & Academic LifeQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
12 points

Hello, i know how frustrating and isolating it is to struggle with a communicative disorder—I've been dealing with post-traumatic speech difficulties for over a decade, and I completely understand how...

Causes & VariabilityCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalPersonal StoriesHope & Motivation+1 more
postr/StutterMar 24, 2025
7 points

Stuttering during eye exam

Stuttering during eye exam Anyone else DREAD doing eye exam where the optician tells you to read the letters on the wall? I had a full medical check up today and an eye exam was a part of it. I’ve w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2025
1 points

Unfortunately overall but fortunately in this situation where you aren't being found out: all women have to do in order to blend into the background is be pretty(for their culture/setting) and quiet f...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
1 points

You’re bullied as much by girls. Guys don’t bully you, but they belittle you and act like you’re a little child struggling to form sentences which gets so frustrating. Those are the guys that say it’s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
1 points

I personally believe being a pretty girl helps. I was that girl. On the top of that I was so shy and timid that most people assumed that I do not stutter. Man usually behaved so well and tried to help...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
1 points

I'm sure pretty privilege plays a part in being more confident, but from my experience, most people don't make fun of stutterers because they don't want to be perceived as an asshole. I'm a woman an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
3 points

fluency is so important to you because you are a people who stutter, for other people it isn't. No one cares 99,9% of the time when you stutter, only you. That's a classic trap for people who stutter:...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
1 points

As a not-ugly guy, I think being soft spoken and approachable also adds to the pretty privilege on my part. Hearing how you are when depressed is interesting, because when I’m depressed, my anxiety an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
2 points

Kinda depend on the environment you are in but the opposite gender does have it easier when it comes to dealing with things like this, boys are less likely to make fun of girls for stuttering cuz they...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & BullyingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
1 points

I always have this ongoing joke among friends and family that my good looks are God’s apology for giving me a severe stutter. I do believe this privilege exists, since I’ve never really struggled maki...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
5 points

I’ve had a similar experience, I’m also attractive but I don’t think that has anything to do with it in my case. It just seems to be human decency rather than privilege. Mind you, pretty privilege ...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Advice OfferedValidation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
1 points

Lol this 100% and if I have the word written down or is in some sort of display, only AFTER I see the other person is actively reading it I can say it fluently...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
2 points

> That made me think that we are often too hard on ourselves, and maybe people don’t notice our stutter as much as we do. That's true to some extent, people who don't have a stutter do stutter somet...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
21 points

I feel the same way , i have always been self conscious about my stutter but the people around me never really notice it or it doesn’t bother them. I too think maybe it is pretty privilege maybe you g...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2025
1 points

25f with this problem and I work in an intense atmosphere (retail pharmacy) how I cope with it? no idea I’ve just kinda dealt with it🥰😅...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2025
1 points

My worse was getting pulled over and cop thinks im lying cus my stutter is that bad so he says hes gonna search the car and finds nothing but still waste of timee...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2025
1 points

I understand. But ultimately, the things we do to avoid them, make everything worse, for our own mental health, and for our listener to know what is happening...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life