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commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
2 points

The biggest thing that helped me with making new friends and talking to women was finding other ways to express myself that didn’t use words. I got into magic/illusions and it was a way for me to brea...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
3 points

I get this, and I try to be, but I feel like I'm too anxious and clumsy to be confident. Whenever I try it backfires. I'm pretty good at being neutral and non-aggressive though, like Switzerland....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
7 points

Confidence is the number one key into having a happy, healthy relationship. It makes you attractive. :) Even in relationships or not, people often admire my confidence as a stutterer. It's what that...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
2 points

I guess I wasn’t clear, but I’m so fluent now (bc of the podcast), that I go out of my way to initiate conversations. The longer you get down on yourself, the worse it gets. I’m in my 40’s and doing...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
6 points

I always talk before I answer the phone and then answer it with the lead off of my previous speech being what I will introduce on the phone and I say it in a rhythmic fashion so I can't stutter. (It's...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
2 points

This is what's going to keep you suffering. Stuttering is part of who you are. The fluent you isn't the real you and the stutter you isn't the fake you. They're in fact the same person....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
1 points

I’m from Quebec (a French speakin province) yet I stutter hard in French but not at all in English, it’s kinda depressing at times as I can be a very a social person in English but because of my stutt...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
2 points

SHAQUILLE O'NEAL used to be so ashamed of his stutter he didn't talk in high school. YOU ARE NOT ALONE....

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2022
2 points

See it like this: If you see a guy limping while walking, not able to walk as fast and smoothly as everybody else, would you want to punch him in the face? Will your opinion of that guy as a human be...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2022
1 points

That’s life It could always be worse, like being physically sick Don’t feel ashamed, you’re probably smarter then the next person...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2022
3 points

Been there and actually done that. When I was a teen I was very ashamed (I still am ashamed, but much less now). I hated myself. I was mostly ashamed for what I felt was “less than” or “less intellige...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
postr/StutterJun 26, 2022
16 points

weird thing i’ve figured out

weird thing i’ve figured out so i’ve stuttered all my life. i try my best to use my techniques and whatnot, but the stutter is always there. one time i was with my friends and i was doing this souther...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Roles & PerformanceAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 25, 2022
5 points

Is becoming a speech therapist giving back or perpetuating the problem?

Is becoming a speech therapist giving back or perpetuating the problem? I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about my future lately because I’ve been strung between 2 majors in college: engineering or sp...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyTherapy ExperiencesIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2022
2 points

I appreciate this comment so much. I guess I never really thought about it being perception of self and being in my comfort zone. I was thinking about my comfort zone a lot, I was asking myself if tha...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2022
2 points

I’ve had a stutter my entire life, it’s gotten worse when I feel my confidence is low. The key to social confidence with a stutter is putting yourself in situations that push you out of your comfort z...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2022
2 points

I wholeheartedly agree! I tried to make a post on this subreddit but it's not showing up as posted, I'm glad I found your post though! It is a great shame that we have to go through this but it's ni...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2022
4 points

Wow thank you so much for this . Helps me feel not so alone , especially because I feel like I’m dumb and not good enough sometimes (obviously I know it isn’t intelligent based) but you know .. when y...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2022
3 points

This stupid disorder is the main root cause for every single problem in my life. Depression. Low self esteem. Low social skills. Low confidence. Isolation. EVERYTHING! ​ Screw this....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2022
5 points

I truly understand your pain regarding it, my stutter makes me feel trapped inside my own mind... I don't really have any advice to give, I've been told the same bs as you after asking for help. I per...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 24, 2022
11 points

Following your dreams with a stutter.

Following your dreams with a stutter. I just posted this as a response, but wanted to share it with the community. Do not deviate from what you truly want, based on your stutter. My daughter sees ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation