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commentr/StutterJan 12, 2026
2 points

I think the main thing for me is just to think that it will happen, so there is no use in fearing it. I also like to think that it makes me unique from most people....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2026
5 points

I agree it's matter of mindset. If you keep thinking about it you are just overthinking all the ways it could go wrong. For me what seems to work is that I just don't care about 99% of the people who ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2026
2 points

Spend time with others who stutter. If you’re in the US, find a nearby chapter of the National Stuttering Association. If you’re outside of the US or there are no groups near you, there are online mee...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Friendships & BelongingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2026
3 points

Last month I presented online in front of 200+ people. I was asked to cover for my manager in an all-hands meeting in front of the entire company. I had a choice. I could have easily said that I don...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2026
1 points

Mines the same as you. I have a baseline level of stutter that I've never gotten below but when I notice my stutter is worse then usual. Even if I don't think I'm feeling especially anxious. I must ta...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & VariabilityMeds & Substances
Mindfulness & BreathingStress & Fight/FlightHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2026
6 points

Hating yourself means playing on the stuttering team against yourself....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2026
1 points

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postr/StutterJan 12, 2026
11 points

What kind of mentality should I have?

What kind of mentality should I have? Every time I stutter, I hate myself. I feel super tired after like I need a lie down and need to cry and I feel tired of life. I’ve heard people say ‘the more you...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2026
1 points

Interested...

commentr/StutterJan 12, 2026
4 points

Personally I don’t think a stammer is something many people will have ‘learnt to love’ however I am personally on a journey to accepting that my stammer is something I will always have to some degree ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2026
1 points

honest opinion is that it is more like a program for someone who wants to improve their public speaking skills and confidence, not a stuttering therapy program. Even then, I don't think anything it of...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Neurological & BrainMedicalization / NeurodiversityUnhelpful Therapy Techniques+1 more
postr/StutterJan 12, 2026
3 points

Hey everyone im new to this group I have a stutter someday its really bad and someday I can perfectly normal but I was wondering if there was anyone here that has learned to take pride in there stutter/stammer and learned to love it

Hey everyone im new to this group I have a stutter someday its really bad and someday I can perfectly normal but I was wondering if there was anyone here that has learned to take pride in there stutte...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2026
1 points

So basically most people I have approached (male or female) are insecure and avoid interactions? Lovely news...

postr/StutterJan 11, 2026
4 points

Anonymous survey for people who stammer – building a private app (3 mins)

Anonymous survey for people who stammer – building a private app (3 mins) Hi everyone I’m someone who stammers and I’m building a small app called “Speak Anyway”. It’s not therapy and not a fluency a...

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Advice RequestsResearch & Resources
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2026
6 points

Hey, I really feel this. You’re not a fool at all work meetings (especially in-person with lots of people) are brutal for stuttering. The anticipation and being watched makes everything 10x worse, it...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating StutteringQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2026
4 points

A minute before you start speaking, look at the people you’ll be talking to and honestly ask yourself: who am I truly afraid of? Then you’ll notice the little miracle that happens with your voice....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2026
1 points

Two foods helped my fluency: Kale  Green Tea ...

commentr/StutterJan 11, 2026
3 points

I don't like the word 'cure' because it's really vague and implies being 100% rid of your stutter. I think the goal for most is getting it down to a very low spm (stutters per minute) rate. My dad had...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2026
11 points

Meetings used to stress me out too in a similar way to what you’re describing when I was younger (I’m 38, so it’s not like I’m old lol). I’d be worried that I’d embarrass myself or people wouldn’t tak...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2026
4 points

When I was younger it was all about trying to stop stuttering. As an adult it became more about acceptance. Acceptance might not even be the right word because I stopped thinking of it as an afflictio...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideSadness & HopelessnessMindset shift