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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2016
1 points

Does your friend know you stutter, if so that's brutal they would say that...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2016
3 points

>if they were made aware of the unintentional at best, negligent at worse damage that they do to people with stutter, they’d feel bad for what they’ve done/do to us on a daily basis. This resonate...

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postr/StutterSep 3, 2016
23 points

Stuttering and Miscommunication

Stuttering and Miscommunication It's one of the saddest things. As people with stutter, many times we're unable to communicate when we want and how we want. This leads to us not communicating to other...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2016
1 points

The thing is friends always mock or be nasty to their fellow friends for no reason at all but merely because they want a good laugh. You may notice they might have done the same for another friend and...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Stigma & BullyingHumor & Community ToneSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2016
1 points

I dislike calling stammering a disability in my case at least, it probably just comes from a place of denial. I totally agree with you on bigotry coming from a place of stupidity. Damn making drunk ...

Identity & Disability
Medicalization / NeurodiversityStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2016
5 points

>It's not your fault you have a stutter. You need to tell her that. Write her a letter if you have to, express your feelings, but in as a calm and compassionate manner as possible. You need to tell...

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commentr/StutterAug 15, 2016
9 points

This is.... a difficult situation. It's not your fault you have a stutter. You need to tell her that. Write her a letter if you have to, express your feelings, but in as a calm and compassionate mann...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2016
6 points

It's the people's abysmal reaction that I really hate. Stuttering itself isn't anything I hate on ita own...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2016
1 points

Just to be sure: I wasn't trying to put you down by using the term "visitor" - I merely looked for a neutral sounding word describing all the people who frequent this place. Oh, and I guess my use of...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingMedicalization / NeurodiversityHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2016
3 points

Please don't be ignorant of stutterers who are worse off than you. That's unbecoming of someone who communicates within a stuttering community....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2016
12 points

>You can sit there and **pout** all you want, it will not change a thing. This is basically shaming all those who have severe difficulties with stuttering - as if it's entirely their own fault. P...

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commentr/StutterAug 6, 2016
1 points

Fuck yeah! Did you have any especially bad events related to stuttering here?...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2016
2 points

100% this. I've had so many people who are honestly just ignorant to what a real stutter is and the only thing they can compare it to is not even close to what we experience, and they never will. So a...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Stigma & BullyingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2016
1 points

I agree if someone takes to using your stutter to mock you they are either completely ignorant to your problem, or are a terrible human being. That sort of thing got me into a ton of fights as a kid, ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2016
1 points

I used to work at a gym making contract sales. Worked there for years. I had to answer phones and make conversation with customers. The place was called "Fort Fitness" so on the phone i would have to ...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2016
1 points

The worst thing a person can do to me is to be sympathetic and feel bad for me when i talk to them. I hear people say they feel bad for me because i have a stutter, or they with they could protect me ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2016
0 points

You must have been severely butthurt by my comment to follow me over here and say something like this. I must have really upset you, man. I'm sorry. Don't take the Internet so seriously. You'll probab...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2016
3 points

You don't need friends to live. I have not had a single friend since high school. And looking back on it that is a very good thing since those "friends" were nothing but opportunistic users. One of th...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2016
4 points

This! I've always been of the view that you should judge somebody not by how they treat their equals, but by how they treat their (perceived) inferiors. ...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2016
2 points

My sister occasionally does this even though I can't even remember her having a stutter. It's frustrating because she makes ignorant and insulting comments about my speech as if she knows so much abou...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Stigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries