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commentr/StutterDec 11, 2025
35 points

I feel like these represents how people feel about stutterers rather well. They might not tell you in your face but I caught people imitating and making fun of my stutter every day when they didn't kn...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
1 points

So are you not a stutterer? I did everything in the book, speech easy to therapy to hypnosis and more. When I overcame my stutter, now successfully working in a communications-heavy job in my 30s, it ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionTherapy Experiences+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
4 points

I gave a presentation yesterday and some of my friends still think I'm just nervous, as well as the teacher. Told them I am a natural stutterer. I speak like this and I can't control it. I was confide...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2025
1 points

I consider stuttering a curse. This is why I spent years learning how to become fluent. I eventually got rid of my curse. The curse effected every aspect of my life. My life finally became more normal...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2025
1 points

I’m a senior security architect, and consider myself to be high functioning, but I also accept that I have a genetic, neurological condition which is classified as a disability which affects my speech...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionGenetic & Family FactorsNeurological & Brain+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2025
1 points

I 100% agree. Thankfully I've asked my friends and they all say it's a textbook definition of a disability as it impair your ability to do certain things. I don't really discuss this with fluent stran...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / NeurodiversityStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2025
2 points

I don’t think of myself having a disability but I think of it being a disability if that makes sense to anyone....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
postr/overcome_stutteringDec 9, 2025
1 points

Silent Words

Silent Words Silent Words Silent Words By Alan Pritchard   Behind the smiles, behind the tears Are silent words that no one hears. Conversations well thought out But censored through my pain and doub...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2025
2 points

Yeah it's tough, I still struggle with the flow state but being aware of its existence helps in a way. It's also very reassuring to know that you, in fact, CAN be fluent and that it's possible to lear...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationFluency TechniquesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
3 points

For me (30M), it was burnout. I spent most of my life forcing myself into socially taxing situations, like working myself up to management roles, going out to bars by myself, leading workshops, and sp...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
2 points

I’ve always wondered what my life would be like without my stutter… & I always think it’d be so much better. Career wise, romantic relationship, & overall happiness. I’ve tried to stop thinking about ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
9 points

Similar age. I realized you either do it or you don’t. I choose to do it rather sitting on the sideline wishing something out of my control was different. Sometimes things get easier as you continue ...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
postr/StutterDec 8, 2025
5 points

Wanting to be different

Wanting to be different Hi all, just have been contemplating a lot tonight and wanted to jot some things down. I'm sure many of you have gone through similar things and have had similar thoughts. I h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentMindfulness & BreathingHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
1 points

Thats cute lol. I’ve had a long term relationship with a girl when I was in my high school kind of. After that, not is been super hard to date plus there are some other stuff as well but lucky you lol...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
6 points

I'm not c0sm0 but they're absolutely right. I still stutter but have reduced it significantly by simply being more confident in myself. Which is of course easier said than done My take is to push you...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
1 points

I stutter when alone or when I’m reading out loud to myself. I stutter when I’m relaxed or stressed. What I don’t like is when people say I stutter because of how I feel or because I’m making a big d...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainIdentity & Self-PerceptionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
2 points

I met my wife back in high school when I was 15! Been together ever since! I’m 54 now! 😎👍🏼...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
1 points

Speaking as a 44 year old woman who still stutters, dated many men and is now married with two kids, whose father also has a stutter... screw her! :-) I feel that way in my career too....you are bette...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceValidation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
-1 points

In my opinion if someone achieves genuine fluency as an adult and they had been stuttering since childhood, they didn’t have real stutter in the first place....

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
17 points

If your a true stutter & it’s actually neurological there’s no cure for it. There’s practice & it makes a huge difference in your fluency but there’s no “fix”. I hope you realize this sooner than late...

Causes & VariabilityMeds & SubstancesIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainHarmful Med OutcomesIdentity & Self-Perception