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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
3 points

Ah, gotcha! :) ​ It's quite sad that he isn't using his platform to simply explain how stuttering often presents to listeners...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
3 points

Oh, I wasn’t disagreeing with you. I was disagreeing with Biden saying he overcame it and elaborating more on your comment. I agreed with what you said....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
1 points

Everything I said was that he has not overcome his stutter. That’s why I used italics in that phrase...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
2 points

Moderate to severe stutterer here! I've been streaming on & off since 2011. It's been hard doing it regularly due to life, equipment issues, and of course how I speak. But I keep at it! I've made...

Causes & VariabilitySchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationEmployment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
2 points

I get what you’re saying but not everyone has a stutter. Sure they stutter but not everyone has one. Also they definitely are a problem but only to the extent we make them really. I find I can make ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
1 points

Get her a beautiful notebook and tell her you’d love to read whatever she writes someday. A stutterer chooses involuntarily to be silent more often but thinks the same....

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Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
3 points

She likes books, and self care. I thought there would be one that someone may recommend. I can see how that may be offensive to some people. Thanks for your input....

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Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
4 points

I can understand that, but I would stray far away from any "self help" or anything that points out her insecurities. If you really want to get her a gift, just find something she truly likes. If you w...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
1 points

Makes sense. I just thought along the lines of a book or item that has helped people who stutter gain more confidence. Guess I should've been more specific....

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Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
1 points

Yes, she loves books, and self care items. So I thought I'd get one that aligns with boosting her confidence in that area....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
10 points

What? What does her stutter have to do with the gift you pick out?...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
23 points

I don’t know what are her interests? She is a human being who probably likes doing things and doesn’t want to be defined by her speech fluency...

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Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
8 points

I dont think you can use a stutter as an distinguishing attribute to base a gift purchase on. Its not like all people who stutter like the same things. Also dont think theres a gift that would really ...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
5 points

My stutter does not make me stupid. Please stop talking to me like I'm stupid....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2022
1 points

You really don’t need to do things like this. This is more of an issue about us not willing or u sure how to express ourselves with what WE want - and not other people. We hold ourselves back so muc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2022
3 points

I don't think it's bad advice, it's simply an option. I don't know how old OP is; but when I was younger, I had no choice but to do what the teachers told me to do. School gave me terrible anxiety. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2022
6 points

I mean not always, I knew a guy who's a stutterer and he was kind of an a hole...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2022
1 points

I feel like what I’m about to say has already been said by everyone but ADVERTISE that you have a stutter. It takes the pressure off from yourself in trying to seem “perfect” and it will allow you to ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2022
10 points

One thing that is common and mandatory for everyone that overcame their stutter, is they learned to give f#$& about what other people think or say about them. you need to work on desensitizing you...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2022
25 points

I do agree that people who stutter can be very introspective! I guess it's the years of inner discussions and daily struggles that create this philosophical lens to life....

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Identity & Self-Perception