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postr/StutterMay 15, 2025
38 points

A good read on how I conquered my stutter. (For the most part)

A good read on how I conquered my stutter. (For the most part) ‼️Before I begin, I just would like to say please read the whole thing before you comment. There may be a time where you don’t agree with...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
4 points

Honestly you're just saying what most people think about us, and the honesty is refreshing. Communication is important to having a normal human relationship, and we suck at it....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
22 points

Alright, I’m someone with a neurogenic stutter. I’d like for you to put yourself in the shoes of this other person. They suddenly developed a life changing speech disorder. All of a sudden, people in ...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & StutteringCauses & Variability
Stigma & BullyingPhysical TensionTrauma & Psychological+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
12 points

Honestly, it's cool... you don't have to talk to them. But you can't have your cake and eat it too. Their stutter is part of them. You either remain friends and learn to accept them or stop being frie...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
1 points

thank you so much for taking the time to respond—it really means a lot. What you shared lines up with the general idea I had, but it’s genuinely reassuring to hear it directly from you. If you don’t ...

Community & SupportAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Advice RequestsAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
1 points

You're missing out a key point. The fluency shaping techniques don't work, and they never have. This is what the research shows. Theyre unnatural and unsustainable. This, and only this, is why the "fi...

Identity & DisabilityTherapy & ProfessionalCauses & Variability
Medicalization / NeurodiversityUnhelpful Therapy TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2025
0 points

Great post! **Summary**: *(of the post)* 1. we started out sensitive, a little more wired for disruption 2. negative experience: we tried speaking but it didn’t come out. Over enough times, it jus...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringTrauma & PsychologicalMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
3 points

I met my wife in college. I was ashamed/embarassed by my stutter but i also…. loved to talk and crack jokes. Some bad fluency days i would still just stay in my dorm and not see anyone, maybe bing on ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
postr/StutterMay 12, 2025
16 points

And the stuttering just dies part 2

And the stuttering just dies part 2 Hi there I'm the OP of that [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/oq6wc3/and_the_stuttering_just_dies/). There's so much on I can say after 4 y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
0 points

I'm not hiding it, but there's no reason for me to discuss it. If someone asks me to talk about it or my opinion on it, sure, but I'm not going to bring it up unless it's important. To each their ow...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
2 points

Yes, this has happened to me a lot! I’m from Puerto Rico and when I still lived on the island it happened fairly frequently (I worked customer service, so I spoke to a lot of people all day). And now ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 8, 2025
45 points

The only thing that's worked for me (and why it can work for you too)

The only thing that's worked for me (and why it can work for you too) I know this has been posted here a few times but I'm going to share it again because it is the MOST IMPORTANT tool I've found and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2025
3 points

I pretended my stutter wasn’t bad, so I can be more socially active. In my mind I told myself I don’t stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2025
3 points

We are our worst critics, and to be honest, it is not irrational either. I personally loathe listening to myself or others stutter because it just feels so deeply wrong. My armchair psychologist theor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
1 points

That's deep man. Me and my girlfriend have made a joke, calling it swimming. All the peeps who can talk are fish and they swim. That's what fish do. But I'm not a fish...but everyone sees a fish when ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
3 points

I can relate, my biggest envy of people in my lifetime has always been how effortless they can talk ....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMay 6, 2025
9 points

What causes your stutter?

What causes your stutter? I've always felt like there's a big misconception with stuttering, like people thinking it's caused my anxiety or nerves. Or because our brains are working faster than our mo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringCycles & RandomnessAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterMay 5, 2025
28 points

Has anyone tried the voluntary stuttering technique?

Has anyone tried the voluntary stuttering technique? This technique isn't widely spoken of, but it's claimed by some people and authors on the internet that it greatly alleviates your stutter by makin...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2025
1 points

Heya! I’m 26 years old and recently went through in-person speech therapy. Like you, I struggled to get the first word out in sentences, especially in class or during meetings/presentations. In fact, ...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Therapy ExperiencesOverthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2025
2 points

Just to add to this, stuttering happens because of the valsalva maneuver - your body reacts to stress and blocks the vocal cords. So the key here is to unlearn that social situations are not a threat ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightMedicalization / NeurodiversityAuthenticity vs. Masking