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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
1 points

Person A doesn't get hired because of their stutter. Person B: well i got hired so its how You handled it. Not only do we not all live in the same society/country but severity levels are also a thin...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationStigma & BullyingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
2 points

Thank you for this post. It made me feel a lot better. A lot of what you said are things I already know but often forget. especially the "no one actually cares as much as you think" part. I think deep...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
1 points

That is amazing to say the least. I work with them quite a bit both as a speech patient, and as a respiratory therapist. You guys are amazing in my book....

Community & Support
Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
1 points

--- How to turn off the stuttering pattern The stuttering pattern is maintained by how the nervous system receives and processes information, primarily through vision and hearing. Visual input. Do...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
2 points

Probably more like “status”. Confidence is part of it, but often even if you are confident but there is someone with a higher perceived status (e.g. your manager, or the cool kid in class) their word ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
1 points

I still think its pointless anyway since confidence is often mistaken for proper fluency, you could make your point and people will still say or think ‘oh he can’t get his words out he doesn’t know wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
1 points

The stuttering program really is recorded, but it does not activate on its own. It is triggered by specific conditions: anticipation of judgment, urgency, loss of breathing control, internal tension, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
1 points

People also describe be as very approachable. Even have asked me to speak with people with, and I quote, my “aura of care”....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
2 points

For the better part, it’s useless to argue 1v1. But when it’s to defend a position in front of others and persuade them it becomes a weakness....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
2 points

Yeah since we are essentially relying on peoples character and hoping they are decent enough to acknowledge you regardless of disabilities, I think me and you built a very strong trait in the sense of...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
2 points

What type of judgement is that? I’ve also developed a very good judgement on first impressions. But I attribute it more on a turbulent romantic periods which led me to value actions more than words...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
1 points

I have to agree with this, i think the avoiding arguments is a big plus, people who speak normally will argue just for the sake of arguing. People with a stutter don’t have the energy to try argue bac...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
3 points

- Quick Wit - I speak less than average so when I do it’s usually a good addition. Probably a good sense of humour since it’s also a way for people to like me. - Avoidance of arguments (especially ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
1 points

I just accepted my stutter. Literally drilled acceptance into my brain. That’s about the only drilling I’ll ever do. 😊...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
2 points

It’s an obvious suggestion. The stuttering program is recorded in our psyche. The real question is what makes this program to manifest itself so fast and how to turn it off???...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Cycles & RandomnessIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
2 points

This is the most important question, IMO!!!...

commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
2 points

Very interesting!!!...

commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
1 points

Just like me fr I hate having to talk interact with smo, because I rack my brains trying to find something interesting to say each time without resorting to small talk or leaving any awkward silences...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
3 points

Yeah i sort of see this too, when i go into a party filled with people (which is rare) i seem to scan over everybody in seconds idk why or the reasoning behind it...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & Monitoring