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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
2 points

I feel your pain.I was a stuttering loser for over 50 years. Always feeling sorry for myself. I saw a couple of Lee Lovett YouTube video’s. Read his book. Did his program and was fluent in less than 4...

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
5 points

Just go for it man. Ive found throwing myself at the fire works best. You’re going to be uncomfortable but it’s way better than feeling regretful you didn’t try. It might be rough at first but you wil...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
6 points

i dont really know bro, probably discord or omegle if you want to speak to strangers. For now my only practise is trying to speak in front of the mirror, or read outload to myself or someone else(f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindfulness & BreathingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
1 points

i totally get your points and most are valid. i do think you need to try to work on shifting your overall negative perspective on life right now - it’s not gonna help you get anywhere. definitely easi...

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Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
1 points

I never said anything about optimism. I push through with spite and hate. I know I'll never have anything non-PWS people get. I know I'll die alone. But that just makes me hate it more and makes me wa...

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Frustration & AngerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
9 points

I would like to chat with you. I think it's important to share these feelings, but don't let them consume you. I'm sure you're an amazing person with many redeeming qualities, you are just maybe in a...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
2 points

Yeah but like. Stuttering is like death. If u think about it too long it gets creepy and scary but u can try to escape reality with optimism but it will fail....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
1 points

If you had a child who began stuttering would you look at them and say you have a repulsive disability and you are a burden to the world? I think you should try and shift your perception about your sp...

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Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
5 points

Ik its tough right now but eventually it'll get better , don't lose hope . If you have then better start looking for something in the future because people are too precious to be lost . You have to fi...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
2 points

Hey man, I'm 24 years old and I have to call customers over the phone almost every hour of the day for work. I'm not going to lie, it's tough calling someone and listening to the ring while my chest i...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
3 points

I’d love to say just do it and you’ll get better, but man that’s usually not the case for us. I find myself using words in my sentence structures that sometimes just make me sound so stupid lol. But i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
2 points

Bro, you're a great motivator! Do you know how I can improve my skill in explanation thoughts? I used to talk not really often, so it's kind of difficult for me( As I know, only through experience y...

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commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
1 points

Being younger it’s all you think about at least for me I was and the more I thought about it the worse I spoke. Confidence also plays a big part the more confidant I became the more control I have ove...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
1 points

Sticks and stones brother. The less you care the fewer power people have over you. Whenever I start worrying about the opinions of others, I ask myself can this physically harm me in any way, shape, o...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
2 points

This made me almost cry reading this because this is how high school was for me. I feel for you because it’s absolute shit. I remember being your age and posting the exact same stuff on this sub. Lo...

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Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
5 points

Look up Lee Lovett on YouTube. He is the speech whisperer. He has a book on how to beat stuttering and also a website. I quit stuttering after 6 months. It’s been 4 years now....

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commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
1 points

What’s it like to have children at a stutterer? This is something I’ve always thought about. When I was younger I accepted that I would never have kids as a stutterer but the future seems more hopeful...

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Early Concern & OnsetHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
2 points

Pay no mind to them, there are way more nice people than mean people. Young adolescents are notoriously mean but they're just projecting insecurities they may have, or they may be trying to show off/i...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
3 points

Be positive and be bold. Women find courage attractive. And it takes guts to approach someone. A great deal more for a person with a stutter....

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
2 points

“How can I build relations or just walk up to a girl when the odds are against me?” You just do it. No matter what the outcome is, no matter what people may think of you, you just gotta act. Be truthf...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationHelplessness & Agency