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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2015
1 points

I share your annoyance here. Everyone in my family tends to do this too. It really makes me skin crawl especially if I can sense they knew that I was trying to talk. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringListener Reactions
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2015
1 points

My stutter is something that makes me unique. It's something I love working on improving, but hate when I let it limit something I want to say or do. I believe my stutter is a very small part of my ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2015
1 points

But get this Aidan, planing the whole conversation that you say, it's actually what in my opinnion sets the all thing on (stuttering) because , speech, (normal speech) is spontanious , it's something ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2015
1 points

I'm also 18 man. It's tough but not as tough as you think. If you work hard to manage your stutter better, you'll see results. Before speaking to someone, I usually plan out whole conversations so I m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2015
1 points

I have a theory about stuttering... when we speak alone we don't really think on how we will speak, we don't antecipate the words right? they just flow smoth through or mouth... but we talk to friends...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight
postr/StutterOct 2, 2015
1 points

Guys i wanna know something

Guys i wanna know something hm... so here it goes... i can read in front of my family , or even alone and you wouldn't even tell that i stutter, but when i am question to read in the classroom i don't...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringRepetitions & Prolongations+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2015
0 points

IMO that belief is a negative thought that will cause your stuttering to persist. Do you stutter when you talk alone to yourself?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2015
-2 points

I agree with the OP in the sense attitude and perspective is everything. Negative thoughts are at the core of stuttering....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2015
1 points

Despite all the criticism of your criticism, your post did help me to get out of my feelings, so thanks for that. I don't have anything meaningful to say, but I am just going to comment on getting cau...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2015
-9 points

That's bullshit , stuttering is caused because you think alot on what you are going to say, is like walking and thinking on what muscle you have to use to walk... when you walk you do that? probably n...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2015
4 points

I also find that when I block some people (even my SO, or family) say "what?" like I as finished and they didn't hear it and I'd have to start at the beginning. Also usually, for me anyway, hearing ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringRepetitions & ProlongationsDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2015
10 points

Let him say what he wants to say, my wife sometimes helps me with a word if i have a real bad block but she never cuts me off and starts talking about something else because I have a pause. To me, whe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringDisclosure & Telling OthersFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2015
3 points

I don't like speech therapy because it either helps for a day or two or it's a complete waste of time because they have no idea about what goes on inside your brain. Only you do. Stuttering is a burde...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionNeurological & Brain+1 more
postr/StutterSep 21, 2015
23 points

Today was a small victory, but a victory nonetheless!

Today was a small victory, but a victory nonetheless! I'm a senior in high school, and I was in English class today. English has always been my least favorite class only because we have to read out lo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2015
11 points

I'm a 20 yr old female stutterer.I am expected by society to be naturally graceful and poised.Most of the time I am exactly that.But once I open my start speaking people know what I truly am.....a str...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2015
2 points

Listen man. I'm 6'6" and when I was 19, I had no idea how to even speak to a girl. I'd constantly be in the friend zone. Just be a nice guy and you'll learn your way to meeting the right girl. You...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
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postr/StutterSep 8, 2015
3 points

My 3 shitty problems and their shittier solutions............please help me come up with better ones

My 3 shitty problems and their shittier solutions............please help me come up with better ones Hey r/stutter Im a 19 year old Chemical Engineering student in Canada. Ever since I was a child I h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterSep 8, 2015
8 points

Just had an unannounced phone interview. (story)

Just had an unannounced phone interview. (story) For the past month or so I've been applying for a lot of jobs, without getting much of an answer. Then today I got a call about a job I applied for...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterSep 7, 2015
12 points

Yet another story from a stutterer

Yet another story from a stutterer Here goes. I first started stuttering when I was 3 years old. I'm turning 23 this month, so my birthday will also be our anniversary. And we couldn't be happier. Rig...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2015
1 points

>I've come to the conclusion that subconsciously my mind is thinking 'your voice is not worth hiring and therefore not worth listening to.' Careful ascribing models to yourself like this. It migh...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring