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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2024
1 points

Hey man that's great.. How did they help can I ask? Is there just less fear of stuttering or is it that you just don't stutter when taking them?...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Helpful Med OutcomesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2024
1 points

I think it mostly has to do with mirroring. We unconsciously imitate the person we are listening to so we can emphatize and build rapport while also expecting to hear a certain language, pitch, tune e...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Listener ReactionsAnxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterMar 9, 2024
15 points

Had anyone ever had to talk to the police as a stutterer? I

Had anyone ever had to talk to the police as a stutterer? I I have had my run ins with the cops, usually traffic violations and some paraphernalia charge like 10 years ago...whatever. Anyway, when th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
5 points

Try another 17 years of this daily issue. You might still have a chance at improving given your age. It’s more difficult for adults. I still remember high school days. So many students in class having...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
1 points

I know it’s easier said than done, but you have to put yourself out there to meet people and own your stutter (like another poster said). It *will* be uncomfortable and hard, but the more you do it th...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
2 points

Yes and no. I understand where you're coming from but that's not the entire truth. Yes, I can confirm that there is some truth on it when you said that we create fear and nervousness whenever we think...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & PsychologicalGenetic & Family Factors
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
3 points

I have a moderate stutter but no trouble communicating and aside from a couple of jerks in middle school no one has given me a hard time about it. It still gives me social anxiety but I am working on ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
2 points

I think sometimes most of our stutter is just like a self fulfilling prophecy. You think you're going to stutter so that creates fear and nervousness leading to stutter. Obviously every individual has...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
3 points

Can’t give the best advice as I’m still working to overcome it myself. Best thing I would say it to force yourself In uncomfortable situations....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
5 points

Because you tense up when you're being observed by other people who may be judging you and what you're telling them. You tense up because of this pressure, and I'd assume because of this you put more ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
1 points

Because they're anticipating your order, and you're pressured to either say it or freeze up. Unlike a spontaneous longer form conversation....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
22 points

The hard thing about stuttering is you come off perfectly normal until you open your mouth. I saw these two girls at the train station that looked semi happy and interested to talk to me. One of them ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
5 points

I don't think it's creeped out, more curiosity and maybe confused. Like a comment here said, stuttering isn't an actual common thing if we go by population size. Most people will never meet a stuttere...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentListener ReactionsDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
1 points

this is such a nasty post and just downright ableist. everyone is on this rock hurtling through space against their will, such is the nature of existence. I'm sorry you're miserable, but please seek p...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
38 points

Because "speaking is so easy! Think of a sentence, put an air flow into your mouth using lungs, that's it!" When non-stutterers meet a stutterer, they can't understand why the latter isn't able to sp...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
6 points

>*"Why we don't stutter when we are alone and why we do stutter when with other people? "* I believe it's likely the same answer to the question, why don't we stutter when silent mouthing a word (ak...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
2 points

You will be able to speak at your natural pace. You set aside 15 mins during the day to practice the metronome pace. The rest of the day you can speak normally. In the video, he also mentioned addin...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
postr/StutterMar 8, 2024
30 points

Why people get creeped out over someone who stutters?

Why people get creeped out over someone who stutters? I noticed people get really put off by somebody who stutters why is that? It's almost a sure way to ruin any chances of meeting people intimate ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
1 points

I was freezing up in the weirdest way with my friend in an obnoxiously loud restaurant. I beating my thoughts of being nervous but I felt u was more so fighting myself physically to get words out to...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
postr/StutterMar 8, 2024
7 points

I don’t have any friends

I don’t have any friends It’s hard enough with a stutter, but I also have anxiety. I get so scared talking to people. Even when I try to speak, nothing comes out. I’m not charismatic or funny the way...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & BelongingLoneliness & Isolation