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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2024
2 points

It’s the same for me. My stuttering is very much linked to my mental health so that’s why I wanted to know if it helped someone....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2024
1 points

It’s the same for me. My stuttering is very much linked to my mental health so that’s why I wanted to know if it helped someone....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 16, 2024
32 points

I can’t say my name sometimes because of my stammer

I can’t say my name sometimes because of my stammer I have a covert stammer so can hide my stammer a lot of the time. However, when I try to say my name sometimes or try to explain what I do for work,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med Outcomes+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2024
8 points

I probably stutter more when I'm drunk, but because I've had a drink I don't stress about it as much so it feels (psychologically anyways) like I'm speaking more fluently than normal....

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2024
2 points

It really is interesting how different people struggle in different scenarios. Can we all agree though that going around the room and introducing ourselves is universally one of the worst possible thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2024
1 points

Yep! My husband has some hearing loss and says what a lot but feels so bad because I normally stutter pretty badly repeating it. I’m terrified of going through drive-thru’s because 1. I’ve been told t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2024
1 points

After I graduated with my bachelors in social work, I had maybe 6/7 job interviews and stuttered pretty bad and I cried after them. The only job that was interested was the one I barely talked in. I d...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2024
2 points

Everyone is too busy focusing on their own nerves to focus on your stutter...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2024
2 points

Just before you speak let a slight exhale of air out and then speak. If you stutter, stay cool and just take a big breath in and let a little air out and then speak Take it at your own pace, maybe...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2024
2 points

I understand how reading that someone faced the same fear and dread that we all face from stuttering might bother you. The thought of someone overcoming their depression and self doubt instead of quit...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2024
3 points

Definitely let the people know you have a stutter so that they’ll expect it, if they see you stutter without knowing they’ll think you’re nervous as hell which you might be but always let people know ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2024
3 points

It sounds like you've not gotten over worrying about your speech just yet. The main step towards overcoming your stutter is letting go of judgement of others. This is very difficult, and it took me ye...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shiftOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2024
11 points

Take pause before the word if you feel like you're going to stutter in it, take deep breath before starting, try to speak as slowly and calmly as possible and inspite following all these techiques if ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2024
1 points

I've seen that for myself, not sure if it's due to getting overly excited, dopamine rush, or just getting sucked in and not focusing on my breathing!...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2024
1 points

I just did a presentation today. Just try not to think others will judge you. Most people are egotistical and selfish and only care about themselves....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2024
1 points

Sorry for the late response - I can't speak for all of us, but for me, my being single was of my own doing. I just made the assumption that women wouldn't like me because of my stutter, so I never ma...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2024
2 points

I just have to be honest at the very start and expect the bare minimum of patience and respect. If you don’t disclose, you put more unnecessary pressure on yourself and sadly most listeners seem to ta...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2024
5 points

Everyone is too focused on their own nerves to notice your stutter...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 12, 2024
6 points

Eye contact, Stuttering and Dating.

Eye contact, Stuttering and Dating. I struggle maintaining eye contact with people when i'm speaking, especially when i start to stutter. Sometimes they look away and it makes me feel bad. What trigge...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2024
2 points

If you are lucky on the day, you will get an understanding interviewer, however this is a rarity, which has stopped me achieving my goals and having the job my education and intellect deserve. I do wi...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment