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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2018
6 points

I realize that they're trying to help, but it doesn't make it less condescending or patronizing. I dislike the immediate assumption that I'm incapable. I also dislike that I'm put in the position of h...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2018
3 points

I hate it when people finish my words for me. It's humiliating and embarrassing. Like I was struggling so much the person felt like they had to step in and help me. I find it to be extremely rude. Als...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2018
1 points

You can struggle without showing disfluency. This is what happens to covert stutters who hide their stuttering. On the outside they pass for fluent but on the inside it's a nonstop tumult of anxiety a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2018
1 points

I personally would find that fairly embarrassing. For some reason I don't really admit to myself that I actually do have quite a bad stammer. I dunno if thats a good thing or not....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMay 25, 2018
13 points

How do you deal with having a stutter in this world?

How do you deal with having a stutter in this world? I just...i get overwhelmed sometimes. A lot of the times. I hate having to introduce myself to people, I hate how fucking rude people can be, I hat...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterMay 24, 2018
19 points

Why has my stutter come back over the last two years? And why do people treat me like I'm unintelligent because of it?

Why has my stutter come back over the last two years? And why do people treat me like I'm unintelligent because of it? From the first time I could speak, I developed a stutter. I was in speech therapy...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2018
2 points

Wow that SUCKS, I probably would have cried :( Fuck that place. I hate when I'm on the phone and the other person hangs up on me because I can't get a word out and they don't realize it lol freakin...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentListener ReactionsBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2018
2 points

You're still young so I'm going to tell you something that you really need to hear. Do not be ashamed of your stutter. If you do that, it will only become worse and you'll soon resort to escapism wh...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2018
9 points

Everybody experiences some amount of dysfluency. This is why for people with a mild stutter others claim to not even notice it. Dysfluency is normal, and is commonly tuned out. You call it a failure ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2018
1 points

I feel you!!! It happened today and the embarrassment still stings a bit. I try not to care but sometimes I get so frustrated. Do you think it’s worse in person or on the phone for you??...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2018
1 points

i feel so embarrassed when i get stuck, like she thinks im done talking because im stuck on a word then we talk over eachother its just so awkward man :(...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2018
2 points

This was amazing. I loved it and it completely sums up my stutter. Whether I'm ordering food or explaining something to someone, my stutter becomes a nightmare and everytime I want the earth to swallo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2018
2 points

I can't tell you how much I loved this. I have tried explaining to loved ones how "little" moments like ordering coffee stress me out SO much! This short film was beautifully done! Do you have any ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2018
3 points

>I have never really opened up about my stutter to anyone even my family because of how embarrassed I am of it. This is something you should change right now. You should be able to share something...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2018
1 points

Trust me i know. It's a lot easier to say than to do. They don't understand how it feels like you have so much you want to say but you can't because either you will stutter and people laugh at you....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2018
1 points

I will probably sit down tomorrow and come up with it. I think it will be interesting to see the responses we get. I have been too ashamed of it my whole life, 44 yrs; maybe I am trying to take...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 10, 2018
9 points

What are some good tips to not stutter that much when you’re making a phone call because I hate when they tell me sir I can’t understand you or is you’re phone cutting out like it just pisses me off or gets me kinda sad

What are some good tips to not stutter that much when you’re making a phone call because I hate when they tell me sir I can’t understand you or is you’re phone cutting out like it just pisses me off o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMay 9, 2018
2 points

Pros and cons of giving someone a heads-up in advance

Pros and cons of giving someone a heads-up in advance Hi, all. This is going to be part self\-introduction \(for context, and because I'm new here\) and part asking for advice. There's something I've ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2018
1 points

I honestly do not remember. I’m old. Lol. I know I was painfully shy because of my stutter. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 5, 2018
4 points

Any suggestion for vowels sounds

Any suggestion for vowels sounds Hi friends ,I am from India. I started stuttering when I was in 5th std.At that time I didnt know good information about stuttering. So due to shame I avoided some sou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentRepetitions & Prolongations