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commentr/StutterDec 11, 2025
1 points

Unfortunately because of my stutter and severe anxiety in a negative feedback loop I had an absolutely terrible time in middle and high school. ESPECIALLY middle school because my stutter peaked and t...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2025
4 points

I more or less did and I became a teacher and I talk to everyone. Turns out it was largely anxiety but I still do struggle with some words. I'll often sandwich those words to the middle of the sentenc...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Fluency TechniquesMindfulness & BreathingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2025
12 points

Presentations and public speaking at work. It’s ludicrous that most people fear public speaking when they can literally speak fluently no matter how nervous they are, or how they feel. They can just r...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2025
4 points

This is it. I’d be the same person. But I would (internally) savor every second of it. The only thing that may change is I’d probably handle some things that my wife handles now. She takes care of a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2025
1 points

I’m so happy to hear he’s in band! It shaped me into who I am today. I ended up majoring in music and taught for 10 years (yes! With a stutter!) I’m out of the field now, but I’m forever grateful for ...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Advice OfferedHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2025
1 points

I met my girlfriend online.  It took 4 years of on-and-off swiping, remaking my profile, etc. So you gotta put in the work.  But we've been together over a year now and very happy.  I think onli...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceEmployment & CareerAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2025
1 points

Thank you for sharing your experience. This has give me a lot to think about. Parents mean well (usually), but sometimes they mess up, even when they think they are doing the right thing. He does cu...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeEmployment & CareerQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2025
1 points

Ok that makes me feel some better. This might be just developmental thing around puberty. I can remember being way self conscious and easily embarrassed at those ages. Its rough. He's in band, which ...

School & Work
School & Academic LifeEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
4 points

Omg is this about my son?? I could’ve written this. My son had a very hard time transitioning in middle school. Finally in 7th he made some friends. My son has never had too many friends and I didn’t ...

Parent & CaregiverSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Family DynamicsSchool & Academic LifeFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
1 points

One of the most humiliating moments was actually back in 9th grade. We had to dress up and pretend to be historical figures, and I was Mary Wollstonecraft. Full costume and everything. We were doing a...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
2 points

I was in a speech coaching program a couple years ago and the thing that helped me was modelling, it's basically like you're acting as someone else but it's so subtle that your brain thinks you're act...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Roles & PerformanceFluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
2 points

It boils down to the question: to reveal that you are different than others and deal with their reactions or try to covert it. I know some stutterers who seemingly don’t care and some with little prob...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2025
1 points

Throw myself into the fire by joining the military with a job that heavily involves talking to people. The military also provides speech therapy for free....

School & WorkCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Employment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2025
1 points

I’m a senior security architect, and consider myself to be high functioning, but I also accept that I have a genetic, neurological condition which is classified as a disability which affects my speech...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionGenetic & Family FactorsNeurological & Brain+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
3 points

For me (30M), it was burnout. I spent most of my life forcing myself into socially taxing situations, like working myself up to management roles, going out to bars by myself, leading workshops, and sp...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
4 points

28 here, and in a business development role with a stutter. I feel you in feeling silly for getting the job that I love. Firstly, these thoughts are normal. It’s normal to have ebbs and flows with yo...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerSeverity & FluctuationOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
9 points

Similar age. I realized you either do it or you don’t. I choose to do it rather sitting on the sideline wishing something out of my control was different. Sometimes things get easier as you continue ...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
postr/StutterDec 8, 2025
10 points

I’m 30 years old and have been stuttering since childhood. Am I the only one who keeps putting myself in situations that I know will trigger my stutter? It’s making me question whether I’m in the wrong career. I really need advice.

I’m 30 years old and have been stuttering since childhood. Am I the only one who keeps putting myself in situations that I know will trigger my stutter? It’s making me question whether I’m in the wron...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
16 points

It’s a good question, and one I often struggle with. Stuttering has changed my life and set me down a completely different path. With that said, I am well into my career as a senior creative director,...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkCauses & Variability
Quality of LifeEmployment & CareerSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2025
1 points

It’s really amazing! Also honestly, this makes me a little angry generally, but when I moved from a service industry job to one with a business card and my name on the door, the way I got treated chan...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingEmployment & Career