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commentr/StutterMay 9, 2024
1 points

idk, my stuttering is not severe but not little as well, but I've always found people naturally drawn to me. like, I've seen people rejecting me or looking at me weirdly when i LOOK bad (thx mental he...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2024
4 points

1. I think it's BS to try to make a generalization about what people who don't stutter think of PWS. 2. I imagine you think about your stutter about 1,000x more than your friends think about it. (Mos...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2024
8 points

That you can’t always say what you want to say. That it sometimes takes great effort to say the simplest of phrases, including your own name - or in my case also the name of my wife… That just the ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterMay 9, 2024
23 points

What do most normal people think of us?

What do most normal people think of us? My friends have never talk about my stutter. I wonder what they think? Idk I kinda wish they did or something. I know I don't talk like most people, but they pr...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 9, 2024
25 points

Anyone also feel so embarrassed/ashamed/worthless after a conversation?

Anyone also feel so embarrassed/ashamed/worthless after a conversation? Yesterday I was having a conversation with a friend of mine, I told him that I have a breathing technique for stuttering which g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 8, 2024
3 points

Tips you would give before a job screening

Tips you would give before a job screening Any tips y’all would give to me before a job screening? Anxiety is through the roof since it is over the phone😭...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2024
9 points

Please, for the love of God, do not give her unsolicited advice. I promise you she's heard all your "tips" before and probably tried plenty of them. No matter how kindly you offer it or how helpful yo...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2024
1 points

I am lucky to have never been bullied or mocked. The most hurtful experience for me was during my thesis presentation at university. I experienced the worst blocks of my life, and there was a professo...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
postr/StutterMay 8, 2024
5 points

Do you guys think adhd and ocd can be a factor on why it’s difficult to verbally communicate

Do you guys think adhd and ocd can be a factor on why it’s difficult to verbally communicate I’ve never been diagnosed due to my environment never prioritizing mental health but I’m postive that I ha...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2024
-15 points

Why, she'll be quiet until she really has to say something. Ive met girls with stutters but they intimidate me cause of how reserved they seem. If you can get a girl that stutters. Lock her down ca...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2024
0 points

Actually you should be considerate of other peoples preference and respect their privacy. When asking for help, you dont want people questioning you and making you feel dumb for even bringing it up. ...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2024
46 points

If you can't be patient yourself for others, why do you expect other people to be patient for you (while you're talking)...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterMay 7, 2024
39 points

Girlfriend with stutter

Girlfriend with stutter Sooo, i’ve been knowing this amazing girl who has a bit of a stutter. I notice it tends to happen more in public places (dinner, ordering drive thru) & usually never when shes ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med Outcomes
postr/StutterMay 7, 2024
12 points

Are speech blocks worse than stuttering?

Are speech blocks worse than stuttering? 17M, my dad has a stutter, and i have frequent speech blocks and occasional stutters. My speech blocks are induced by anxiety most of the times, like when s...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2024
2 points

What’s more disturbing is why would your parents hit you after someone asked you why you were quiet. I hope you meant playfully hit you to help you encourage to speak out more despite stuttering. I ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 7, 2024
14 points

My crush asked me why I'm so quiet and I'm kind of upset about it

My crush asked me why I'm so quiet and I'm kind of upset about it Don't get me wrong, 9 times out of 10, people don't have any bad intentions when asking that. It's just that when I was younger, if s...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMay 7, 2024
9 points

I really want to sound smooth and cool but I can't

I really want to sound smooth and cool but I can't I feel like I sound cool in my head, but I just can't in really life. If I make a joke or a funny comment, people usually still laugh, but I'll stil...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
3 points

Even iam in my CS majors dawg (nearby 3rd year) Iam doing good in DSA unfortunately I stutter alot . Even i can't give good presentations too! Getting Nervous day to day coz need to face interview �...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
1 points

I don’t experience full on bullying, cyberbullied over a discord call at very most over my stutter. I do experience some sort of teasing pretty much every other day in school. Today I had a group pres...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
6 points

The problem with masturbation and porn is that it brings some internal shame as you know that what you’re doing is pretty embarrassing. Think about it, you are essentially training yourself to become ...

Meds & SubstancesCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment