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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2024
3 points

This is so me! It's terribly exhausting to the point that I'm totally drained after going out or doing any kind of interactions (especially speaking the language that's used where I live). Even though...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 7, 2024
12 points

First time posting, happy to find this sub

First time posting, happy to find this sub I am so happy to find this sub and after reading through a few posts and comments, for the first time ever I feel like people understand my struggle with sp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2024
6 points

I spent the last 13 years not saying my bachelor’s degree. I might have only said it twice during that time (both with horrific repetitions)....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2024
3 points

I think we all substitute words we can say when we block. Anything is better than being embedded....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2024
3 points

Me too. I'm 98% fluent with very mild blocks. Most people consider me to be fluent but only I know when I'm infrequently blocking And word substituting mid-sentence. Anyone else?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterApr 7, 2024
8 points

My personal stutter

My personal stutter I feel as though my stutter is drastically different from the “nominal” or “clinically diagnosed” stutter. My stutter happens infrequently, mostly when I’m nervous, But even then i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2024
1 points

even i am in the same situation as u , only while speaking to my friends my stammering is somewhat in control but in other situations like ordering something from a restaurant, initiating a conversa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2024
2 points

This is awesome to even think about. Gives me hope that younger generations are well equipped to innovate neat solutions to age old problems. Sick That being said. This is a tool imo. And a damn goo...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Assistive DevicesAvoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2024
6 points

I just don't understand how you can use it in real life situations...Like ordering food at a sit down restaurant, etc......

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionAssistive Devices
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2024
5 points

I wouldn't use it to entirely replace your voice. This is good for YouTube videos, presentations and elevator pitches in job interviews things like that. Works for drive thru and restaurants too. How...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAssistive Devices
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2024
6 points

One thing that I would like to point out (as a stutterer) is that, please, do not force onto her the notion that stuttering can be 'cured' - that is a bit damaging to mental health. Growing up, I woul...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Medicalization / NeurodiversityAvoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2024
9 points

I wish my mother had said something like, 'At home, you are free to speak as you’re able at the moment. Don’t try to avoid blocks or substitute words, and take all the time you need.' However, I grew ...

Parent & CaregiverAnticipation & Avoidance
Home SupportAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2024
5 points

does that mean you’d use it?  i feel like it flies in the face of self acceptance, but again not enough to not use it ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2024
1 points

🤣 I’ve faked sick so many times lol it’s funny but you gotta do what you gotta do honestly if you have a stutter then other people who stutter will understand this. Just speak with a quiet sore voice...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2024
2 points

Did you figure out a way to help ease the blocks or make them shorter? Honestly, I know people want us to finish our own sentences but when i’m stuck on a block, I feel relieved when someone finishes ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterApr 5, 2024
22 points

Couldn’t speak to a girl

Couldn’t speak to a girl Yesterday I was out with a girl and she seemed excited and spoke alot but I was silent most of the time and when I tried to speak I ended up stuttering so I stayed quiet. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2024
3 points

I’m the same way. I can’t portray what I really wanna say at times. When that happens, I usually send a email. I write wayyyyy better than I can speak. A wise man once told me, when you are in a posit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterApr 5, 2024
18 points

Awful Job Interview

Awful Job Interview Just had a job screening that went awful. Even though I practiced so so much, I still had a of stammers on several words in a sentence. It was extremely embarrassing. Whenever I th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2024
3 points

The trick is to never follow a specific set of words. I always had a hard time saying what people wanted me to say. The work-around is to mix it up everytime you have to say the same phrase. "Goodmorn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 5, 2024
5 points

Stammer since child now 20

Stammer since child now 20 Since I was a kid, I had a severe stutter that got worse with stress and social settings. It goes and comes but funny enough my stutter has became a very bad stammer. Words ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Repetitions & ProlongationsAvoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more