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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2024
2 points

Yeah, likely something during the call put her off, it doesn’t HAVE to be stuttering tho, there’s a million other things. Or if you want to think wild it could be her boyfriend found her account or ...

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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2024
4 points

For me stuttering as a teenager (14M) is also a terrible expierience, Adults definetely have it worse, talking to anyone is frustrating and infuriating, its hard to socialise in school, talking to any...

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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2024
28 points

(Not saying this applies to you) Right-wingers/conservatists tend to exclude everyone who isn't the same as them. I can't tell you how many times I was made fun of my stutter by conservatists just bec...

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Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2024
2 points

Thing is I do have social anxiety, but it’s really based on how I’ll make a conversation awkward. It’s not even about judgement....

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postr/StutterJun 8, 2024
28 points

I don’t have social anxiety

I don’t have social anxiety One of the most frustrating things about being a severe stutterer is knowing that your speech impediment is the sole thing that keeps you from talking to people. I would c...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2024
1 points

I’ve tried damn near every on and off label anxiety med. Only benzos work(gabapentin, pregabalin or phenibut help too, the first two are better long term) but they lose effectiveness when it comes to ...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2024
1 points

She wouldn’t have just unmatched without giving any hint as to why though. She even stayed on the phone for 30 minutes before unmatching. She wouldn’t waste her time like that with someone she just wa...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2024
5 points

That’s the main reason I miss high school. People know who got good grades and who didn’t so everyone knew I wasn’t an idiot. Now I have to prove to everyone I’m not stupid before they’ll treat me lik...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2024
1 points

It’s not because of your stutter- it’s because she’s in love with her ex and was looking for a distraction and found you. She probably got back with her ex. Trashy nasty people....

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postr/StutterJun 8, 2024
1 points

Do you excel in math/programming?

Do you excel in math/programming? The inability to solve problems caused me anxiety, which subconsciously contributed to my stuttering. As a result, I’ve always had an aversion to math and programming...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2024
1 points

In the context of OP’s situation where it was the first person they liked and got rejected after a dating hiatus, that shit happens. You’d be hella lucky to date the first girl you connected with. I’m...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2024
1 points

Every girl that has been into me has said my stutter is cute or even hot. I don't agree but, I think it's that most things a guy says or does a girl will think is hot it she's into him. She prolly ju...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2024
3 points

You said you stuttered close to none. Sounds like she decided she wasn’t interested anymore for whatever reason. There’s more flaws and unappreciated things you could be missing than stuttering. Perha...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2024
1 points

Same here .. it was a phone call with a high status person .. I was confused because the person is known to be very friendly and kind and has a medical background.. I was turned down by this incident...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2024
3 points

Yes, it hurts. The person I'm talking about was a guy from Chile. We were waiting in line at a festival and I was talking and having a good time with strangers (I went there alone), until the guy stru...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2024
4 points

Don’t overthink it too much, it could’ve been absolutely anything that put her off. Plus… if it was your stutter, that just goes to show that she just isn’t the person for you....

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commentr/StutterJun 7, 2024
9 points

I mean, she could be put off by anything. She could have been out off my you calling her 30 minutes instead of 31 minutes. You are way overthinking....

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postr/StutterJun 7, 2024
2 points

cause of my stutter - solutions?

cause of my stutter - solutions? i am 100 percent sure my stutter is due to my anxiety. whenever i’m in situations where i have to speak in front of people i can never get words out…meanwhile when im ...

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commentr/StutterJun 7, 2024
2 points

It just makes me wonder if she was put off by my stutter ( I stutter FYI)...

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commentr/StutterJun 7, 2024
2 points

yeah it happened once in an oral exam, the examiner said: “before we start, do you have tourette or just nervous”. it was really really rough day😂...

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