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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2023
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1) Talking on the phone. My stutter is almost always at its worse when I have to talk on the phone, and it just creates so much mental anguish and suffering. Emailing or texting isn’t always an option...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2023
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I have no friends because my stutter makes every social engagement extremely awkward. That's just the truth, no one wants to hang around a guy who cannot contribute to the discussion/jokes without com...

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2023
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I’m sorry you’re going through this. I am too, but maybe the stakes are a little lower as a woman. Why don’t you have any friends? A stutter is a disability, and a pretty cruel one at that, but it sho...

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Loneliness & IsolationFriendships & BelongingDating & Romance
postr/StutterDec 18, 2023
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Whenever I meet people In person they stop talking to me

Whenever I meet people In person they stop talking to me I meet girls on dating apps, we chat for hours - days - even weeks, when we meet in person they block me afterwards. I meet friends online, w...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2023
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gaming - i hate talking to people irl, so i can fill that void by chatting to people in multiplayer games through text. i also enjoy watching youtube and hanging out with my pets and son, who never j...

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Friendships & BelongingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2023
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At the moment I only enjoy team sports like basketball, where I can forget myself, but I rarely get to play with anyone. Oh yeah, I also really like listening to brutal death metal and music like that...

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Friendships & BelongingLoneliness & IsolationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2023
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I like getting out of the house. Meeting new people when I can even if I am nervous to talk. I enjoy music. I do enjoy live music and bands when I get a chance to go to events. I go to the gym. I expl...

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Quality of LifeEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterDec 17, 2023
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What hobbies do you guys have?

What hobbies do you guys have? One of the things about being a stutterer that I don't really see being talked about is how boring our lives can be. Alot, if not majority of us, often spend our time ...

Social & Relationships
Friendships & BelongingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2023
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Yes, very true unfortunately. I have always seen my stutters as a bother and sort of on my own isolated myself from anyone who cared enough to talk to me. Damn shame....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2023
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|F26| I fear that I may end up a failure because of my fear of speaking in front of crowds because I fear I would be laughed at. I also fear that I might end up alone for the rest of my life because w...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2023
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It doesn't really hurt that much once you get used to it and this doesn't worth to start taking drugs at all. As for isolation, I think if I didn't stutter, I wouldn't have many acquaintances and frie...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterDec 14, 2023
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Stuttering & Depression

Stuttering & Depression I think the thing is the social isolation and the inability to communicate to others. Being lonely has serious issues and on-flow affects. And every chance to communicate ...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2023
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It’s rough man. It’s really rough. I relate to everything you said on your post. Stuttering is a disability. A very misunderstood one. I’m on government disability benefits because I can’t work becaus...

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Stress & Fight/FlightHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2023
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I stutter too ...I know it's difficult but we need to keep going...there are days when you feel encouraged to talk but some days you just feel like not talking to anyone, just staying alone, all by yo...

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Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2023
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I relate in this except in my school instead of people trying to understand my situation of my severe stammer they paint me as strange or anti social it’s really fucced but we can’t change how they th...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterDec 3, 2023
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Lack of friends getting me down

Lack of friends getting me down Not sure why this has been bothering me so much, but the lack of friends and socialization is really getting to me recently. My hobbies are things I can do by myself, m...

Social & Relationships
Friendships & BelongingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2023
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Thanks for the encouraging words. Unfortunately, I can't afford therapy. I can't even open up to my family. I need to let out my inner fears, my school life bitter experiences, etc but I've got no mon...

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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2023
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Hey bud I’m 22 too, every word you said is the same for me, it's really hard for us we really don't know what to do or where to go, it's like we got lost somewhere...

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Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2023
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Yeah I’m there only person I know who stutters so I feel you...

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Loneliness & IsolationValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2023
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So is it not the stutter that is the debilitating condition? But the secondary conditions you mentioned? Anxiety, isolation, and depression?...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & IsolationSadness & Hopelessness