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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2023
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Let it go, you have just 1 life to live and at best that's 75 years. Don't spend it living in fear, stammering isn't a reflection of your intelligence, your competence or your potential. It limits but...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2023
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> Despite the fact that you have a challenge that none of your peers have to deal with, you get up every morning, you go in to school, and you do your best. That's a goddamn success. Well I suppos...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2023
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Does anyone else have a huge vocabulary and a really good memory? I've read some studies about stutterers having a hyperactive right frontal precortex. This controls learning and remembering non-verba...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2023
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I’ve always stuttered. I didn’t even know it was a stutter until a classmate asked me why I stutter in first grade...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2023
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Dont be embarrassed either. Ik sometimes people will laugh but thats ur quirk. And alot of great figures stuttered. Its not a handicap. You're unique. We are unique. The cure is feeling comfortable in...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideHumor & Community ToneIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2023
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No. You were made perfect and theres no flaw with you. You were given a stutter cause you would be too overpowered if you didnt have it. Stuttering is linked to emotion. Control ur emotions and youll ...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideStress & Fight/FlightIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2023
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>you stutter. You can’t use that power to speak fluently all the time because you’re letting others I'm starting to try this, like when I'm feeling that I'll stutter, I remember that I am the onl...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2023
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I have almost the exact same form of stuttering. Like 96% of what you just described match mine except my stutter has never disappeared as such. I feel like I've been better equipped to mask it from t...

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commentr/StutterAug 25, 2023
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Around 20 years old That’s great OP that you want to pursue psychology to understand your stuttering. That sounds like a great idea! I recommend the book “Redefining Stuttering” by John Harrison. Yo...

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commentr/StutterAug 25, 2023
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You have a good point but for some of us It’s so ingrained it may as well be as permanent as your eye color. It would be nice to not stutter and be normal in social situations but if I look over my li...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2023
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As someone who's 24 and resonated with this post deeply, I am slightly concerned that this feeling is never going to go away with age...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2023
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When I was 6, but as a kid I tried to fix my speech year after year like practicing an instrument and trying to improve your skills. I never knew that it was a disability until I was 19, so I felt rel...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionFluency Techniques
postr/StutterAug 24, 2023
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When did you guys start stuttering?

When did you guys start stuttering? When i was a kid i was born in Japan, i spoke english at home and japanese outside. During this time i did not stutter at all. But the moment my parents divorced an...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalOnset & Life-Stage ChangesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2023
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I'm 22 and I think I've accepted for a few years now that I stutter. I legit don't mind. I have an interview? "Oh just a heads up I have a stutter btw". Have to do a phone call? Well no im too shy lol...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2023
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Hey! First of all, thank you for those kind words but even more for your compassion towards your partner. It makes me happy to hear he has such an understanding and amazing person like you on his side...

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Validation & EmpathyMindset shiftHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2023
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At some point, I just took it as given and forgot that it's not normal. It sucks but all other people have their own things that they are not satisfied with - looks, mental or physical problems, famil...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2023
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I do this alllll the time. One time someone told me "you always forget stuff" 😭😭 honestly tho I'm insecure tbh so I'd rather them think that then think Abt my speech impediments lmao...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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postr/StutterAug 23, 2023
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What should i do

What should i do I'm currently 19 and i have noticed that i am stuttering like i used to do when i was a kid. As far as i can remember I've always Suffered to speak without pauses. During my highscho...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Repetitions & ProlongationsAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2023
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Love this. What many of us stutterers have been missing is that navigating is all about rewiring and energizing ourselves. Not our stutter. Our being shifts and our stutter changes as a perk of other...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2023
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That actually does make sense, as you get more comfortable with people you don't try to hide it as much. I used to think that the more comfortable I got with people the less I would stutter but I gues...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Experiential AssociationIdentity & Self-Perception