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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2020
1 points

I share your pain. Thats why I hate the first day of a job, school, training, etc. Because I usually stammer with my name. I hate it when you say your name fluent as \*\*\*\* LOL but they don't hear y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
1 points

Hello, I have been struggling with this for as long as I could remember. I been embarrassed and felt hopeless many times. Sometimes i wonder what the heck is wrong with me? I hate being put on the spo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
2 points

The irony is, if you look at the pictures backwards (starting with the bottom right, then left, then top)... it's what a person may experience when trying to have a serious conversation with someone c...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
3 points

I stutter the first syllable of my name often. People ask for my name and it looks like I’m pausing to think about it. “WhAT dID yOu FoRgEt YouR NaME?”...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Repetitions & ProlongationsFeared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
3 points

Yea, I'm glad that others are not experiencing what I have. It's given me a lot of rot on the inside for a long time. It's gotten better over the years though, but the rot is still there. I know I'm w...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
1 points

They are saying many things out of nowhere that's hurtful recently because of the lockdown, and this happen to be one of them. They were pointing out some words that I stuck on is making them think o...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
1 points

It's just it has been years since they mentioned anything about it, they have gone through their denial phase, acceptance phase, making me convert phase, all that, I thought we are settled on my condi...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2020
1 points

Yes I know. It happens to me a lot, at school, with friends, and in family gatherings. I rarely say something. It feels hopeless, as in they wouldn’t ever understand and will ultimately do it again! ...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMar 18, 2020
56 points

I hate being called 'Lucky'

I hate being called 'Lucky' After my first few bad presentation experiences, i just stopped giving presentations in University altogether. Teachers usually give me around avg or below marks coz they d...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2020
1 points

He must've been really smart lol. That's awesome! A lot of the time ppl assume we're idiots cuz we can't articulate well. There was a girl who was always flirting with me and one time after a lengthy ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2020
12 points

I hate it too, there was a memory I have in grade school when I was ask to give me name and I stammered and blocked up, she said, "What, you don't know your own name?" I'll remember that for the rest ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterMar 15, 2020
38 points

Having a bad week

Having a bad week Its one of those weeks where even saying my own name is a struggle, i hate it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2020
1 points

It took me along time to accept it. I pray someone finds a “cure” for stuttering in my lifetime, but until then I know it’s not going anywhere. I feel the same way too. I know people think that we’r...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentCycles & Randomness
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2020
3 points

I'm glad you're so positive about our situation. I'm not in the best place right now so my perspective might be a bit of a reflection of that. But I really believe some people think we are dumber som...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2020
1 points

Thank you! I’m still prolly gonna be embarrassed next time the group gets together but thank you for the kind words!...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2020
6 points

Good luck to you. I didn’t get my dream job and just received an email yesterday that I didn’t make it for the second stage of the interview. Probably due to my stutter....

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2020
2 points

1. People think I'm an introvert by choice lol. I just don't want to go out/participate in stuff cuz I'm scared of the embarrassment. 2. I just want it to stop or I wouldn't mind having this shitty pr...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2020
5 points

1. the anxiety of speaking in front of , especially new, people and just the words not coming out of your mouth even though you try as hard as you can to get a word out of your mouth. Presentations ar...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2020
1 points

I don’t really have anyone I talk to because I don’t ever talk about these things irl. But I never pray like that. But I got so anxious that I couldn’t even focus on the prayer and I just wanted it ov...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2020
1 points

I hate it so much. I’m sorry about your hair. I really want to reduce this stutter because it gets in the way of my confidence so much...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation