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commentr/StutterApr 18, 2020
1 points

This is truly a tough one because I'm honestly rugged in some departments and sensitive in others. It's definitely made me more tough-skinned in life in general, because living life (F19) with a sever...

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commentr/StutterApr 17, 2020
1 points

I watched it two times , but there is that scene that stuck with me and keeps popping randomly every once and a while and would never forget. It's the scene where King George went to Lionel Lough for ...

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commentr/StutterApr 17, 2020
1 points

When I first started stuttering, my family used mimic my stutter ( I guess it was funny to them how I couldn't pronounce some words). They stoped doing that when they noticed that I was visibly upset...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2020
3 points

Honestly I had bought that movie nearly when is first came out. It sat on a self for well over a year, I didn't want the mirror shown on me like that. They did an amassing job and I cried like a baby...

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commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
2 points

opposite for me too. Super sensitive about everything and feel a lot of pain and anxiety over social situations, often dwelling on them for days afterwards because I could tell someone noticed my stut...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
4 points

"Stop stuttering", "stop stuttering for attention", "quit faking". I only get these when my stuttering goes away for a little bit then comes back....

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commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
8 points

“Are you drunk?” (It was 9am and I was on the phone). Another was when I was 8 and my teacher told me to, “Spit it out already.”...

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commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
14 points

“Oh shoot are you special ed” probably one of the biggest hits I’ve had to my self esteem (nothing wrong with people on the spectrum but still)...

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Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
9 points

Ugh if I had a dollar for ever botched punchline I’d be filthy rich. In each of those I can clearly remember it just being an awkward situation instead of funny...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
1 points

I totally get it. I was the only stammer in my school too. What bothers you most about it? \[sorry if replied late my laptop got broken\]...

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commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
8 points

What ever happens, you should never give up and ever feel ashamed or useless , we just have to fight and move on , don't let stutter affect the quality of your life...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
1 points

Yeah of course if it's just harmless fun that's fine, just when people are being genuine dicks about it then I know to avoid them...

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commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
3 points

Hahaha exactly! Don't mind if people are making jokes if they don't have a malicious intent but if they're genuinely being nasty then I know to avoid them in future haha...

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commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
3 points

I usually laugh along. Lmfaooo not everyone is used to it, and some people try to chuckle it off because they're nervous and dont even know to react. But I'll always mention I have a stutter too lol. ...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2020
2 points

The low hanging fruit of someone countering by goofing on my stutter has always allowed me to open up with my own glorious insults! Unfortunately.. my goofs verbally cut the person to their soul!...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2020
1 points

I for one hated my stutter. Cause the bottom line is that when shit goes sour (and it can go sour for even a little bit or something small) they would use it. Even if you didn’t want it to get that fa...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2020
3 points

I'm okay with friends and people I know/trust making jokes. But when strangers do it, it definitely makes me feel uncomfortable....

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2020
12 points

This is something that took me a long time to learn. I used to make a lot of excuses for people who teased me about stuttering because I was insecure about it myself. Nowadays I do my best to call p...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
1 points

I think about it all the time.. Everytime someone asks if I forgot my name.. Or cuts me off while I'm trying to speak.. Or when I just have so many things I would like to say and just stay silent. Tha...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
6 points

I’ve been stuttering for all 17 years of my life and I realized it’s not people that judge us it’s ourselves that judge us. I’ve gone to the same school for 17 years and no one really cares anymore ...

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