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commentr/StutterJul 3, 2024
1 points

Every aspect of your story is extremely common and it’s called a Covert Stutter , and that’s good news because it means there are actually way for you to be able to speak your own name. The most he...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2024
10 points

Pressure = stress, stress = anxiety, anxiety (usually triggers) = stuttering....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 3, 2024
4 points

Why don't I stutter when feeling confident or if I know that no one's judging me?

Why don't I stutter when feeling confident or if I know that no one's judging me? For context. I'm 19M, finished high school. when I hit 11, I began to stutter suddenly. i had never stuttered before t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 3, 2024
9 points

Super fking angry

Super fking angry I practice a lot and everything goes smoothly still there are some instances where I become sad and anioux and fuck up talking. I recover but still those few minutes just get in my ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 2, 2024
2 points

Anxiety-driven stutter

Anxiety-driven stutter I have a speaking exam in some days and I've been practicing. Since no-one in my family speaks English, I've been practicing on my own and everything has gone well of course, be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringPreparation & RehearsalStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
1 points

I'm sure many of us are not looking for perfection; we're just looking for someone who will accept us for who we are and not judge us because of our stutter....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
2 points

in a very similar situation to you. Focus on the underlying anxiety, not the speech itself is my biggest piece of advice. As far as medication, propanolol helps for situations in which you may have to...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFluency TechniquesFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
3 points

About 10 years ago, I stuttered my way through an interview with a governmental agency. It was a disaster. I was nervous and tired. However, I was super qualified and had great references. ....I still...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
0 points

I think that societal pressures, expectations, and attitudes toward speech performance or stuttering may differ between genders. If this is true, then girls may receive more social support or experien...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
2 points

>"*There is tremendous "pressure" from the modern society to erase any psychological and even physiological differences between males and females*" Great response! Yes indeed, as you say this pressur...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 2, 2024
4 points

Looking for helpful tips

Looking for helpful tips Let me start off by saying that i am a seasoned stutterer. I am 34 and i have had this thing since i could talk. When i was younger, it never registered to me that having diff...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
2 points

In fact, there is tremendous "pressure" from the modern society to erase any psychological and even physiological differences between males and females. IMO, it leads to insecurity in both genders,...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
6 points

Hey. Even I had an interview today and felt that it could've been much better if I didn't have a stutter. I guess this is life, can't wait for it to be done...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
5 points

That’s totally normal to ruminate after an interview. If you think it could be a good idea, you could send a thank you email and throw in the line that the other commenter suggested. I trust your judg...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
5 points

I was pretty confident in the interview but I feel low now. Usually happens after an interview or public speaking situation, maybe I am judging myself but it is what it is. Thanks for your input and ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
4 points

Yeah, I did and yes, the panel was understanding my condition but still I feel I didn’t do my best and might not be considered for this job. I usually disclose this every single time and mostly peop...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
-1 points

In my opinion, I think that there are differences in societal/environmental pressure. Generally, male traits could reflect greater levels of being more: * **active**: leading to more responsivity or ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 2, 2024
28 points

Choppy interview - Day ruined

Choppy interview - Day ruined Hey just want to share my Virtual interview experience today. The interview was with the City, and I did get good grades in the test. However, in the virtual interview to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
1 points

No and I will most likely never find love. Approaching is hard and I am afraid of rejection. My stutter is severe and not cute and tbh I’m not attractive at all....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
2 points

Hey I’ve been dealing with something similar. All this debt to go to school and I can’t get through an interview. You do belong in this world. I’ve felt this way many times and I understand where yo...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency