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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
2 points

ye im 15m and for me I dont have like any friends ( people talk to me but rarely ) I allways have to start converstions with everyone expect my one friend and I feel sorta shund for my stutter / looks...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
5 points

i think it too, its strange since when it comes to friendships they are definitely not attracted to you.; maybe i was lucky enough to be surrounded with good people who never makes me feel like im tra...

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postr/StutterMar 21, 2025
20 points

How to accommodate club member with stutter?

How to accommodate club member with stutter? I'm president of a club at my University. Recently, I discovered one of my members stutters. I don't stutter, and I've never encountered anyone who stutter...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2025
1 points

Cold approaching a girl like that only really works if you have tons of charisma and top tier social skills, it’s an almost impossible for most guys so don’t beat yourself up...

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2025
2 points

Oof, blocks are the worst! Often, the clients I work with will try to push through the blocks and it feels like they can't breathe. I don't have any adult women I know who stutter that I can connect y...

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commentr/StutterMar 17, 2025
2 points

Hi, I have the same type of stutter and now am a 26 (m) my absolute best advice I can give you is be confident dude. You’ll struggle through some words, people usually dont say anything. I’ve gotten m...

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commentr/StutterMar 17, 2025
2 points

( sorrys about the wrong info about the interrruption ) and high school you just got to find the right friends I think and people who dont care about the stutter ( im only in freshman year ) and my st...

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postr/StutterMar 17, 2025
2 points

I feel like giving up on trying to date or make friends

I feel like giving up on trying to date or make friends So I (M20) Just seem to have a 0 luck and never get respect when I try to meet new people/make friends/date. It's starting to have an effect on...

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postr/StutterMar 15, 2025
6 points

Stutters

Stutters Hi I'm a 27 years old young man and I am a person who slightly stuttering I hope I cam make some friends who have stuttering. If you are interested fee free to send me me a message. ...

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commentr/StutterMar 15, 2025
37 points

Please don't tell her to relax or take her time if she can't get the words out of her mouth that often makes us more anxious. Also most of us are pretty good listeners so don't hesitate to talk a lo...

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commentr/StutterMar 15, 2025
4 points

You are not alone dude. 27M here with zero friends. Occasionally, I do yearn a genuine friendship but it seems far-fetched, so i just let it go....

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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2025
3 points

I think it depends on the person and how bad it is im only 15m but my stutter has effected my social life a lot ( have like 1-3 friends and never have dated so ya but for me at least if he starts to ...

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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2025
12 points

To know what he's feeling you'd have to ask him. Don't think it's overstepping or rude to ask him questions about it because you deserve to know just as much as he deserves to be himself around you. I...

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commentr/StutterMar 12, 2025
9 points

You feel that your stutter holds you back from being yourself and you feel like you’re an outsider of your own community. I mean James Earl jones had a stutter and he has the most recognisable voice i...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2025
10 points

Just go for it. Start making conversation and they will catch on naturally and see you stutter too. Might be a start of a great, and important, friendship!!...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2025
4 points

I’m in the same boat rn. I wish I had friends that wanted to spend more time with me. You’re not alone....

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postr/StutterMar 10, 2025
10 points

Cause sss-same

Cause sss-same How do you approach someone with a stutter too and talk about your struggles with stuttering without it being awkward? I noticed someone in my class that has a slight stutter too and it...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2025
13 points

Yup I try to not spread negative energy but man sometimes life really fucking sucks. Even being heavily medicated doesn't change the fact how much life as a stutterer sucks. Tbf I didn't really get l...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2025
10 points

How did you manage to reduce it? The one thing that seemed to help me is to talk to friends. I had one friend group but we had a falling out due to reasons unrelated to stuttering and it’s so hard to ...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2025
4 points

You don't have to keep in touch with these people; true friends won't laugh, they would want to protect you. Just think that after you graduate school you won't have to see these people again. It's be...

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