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commentr/StutterMar 12, 2021
1 points

Thank you. This community helped a lot on down days, although there is a lot of negativity so I'm not subscribed....

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Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2021
3 points

What the fuck is up with the downvotes. I mean seriously, do some of y’all just hate seeing people with similar problems as you succeeding in their lives? To the dude above me, I’d award if I could...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
3 points

You are welcome. We are all humans, looking for love and acceptance. Stuttering doesn’t change that :) keep us updated and most of all remember that you aren’t any less of a person bc of your stutteri...

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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2021
3 points

This is wonderful advice, I appreciate it greatly. I'll try to follow the steps you provided and see if it'll make a difference which I'm sure it will....

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
2 points

Wtf are you like me from alternative universe holy shit Thx dude I will get a better look in the morning....

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
8 points

I am sorry to hear about your father. You are not alone in any way. Whenever I feel this way, I do three things. 1) spend some time in nature. Whatever that may look like for you. Get in a car and dri...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
2 points

Wow that’s amazing, i’m happy your parents were so supportive! I’ll definitely try not to avoid my stutter when i’m talking to them and hopefully will tell them soon...

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2021
1 points

Dude, I feel sorry for you. I understand you, I have a similar story. They're just starting to laugh at me in class, but I've already started to notice it. I wish you patience and good luck...

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2021
2 points

I hear you. It's a struggle and we want to get through it somehow. Perhaps other users will recommend some stuff you can try, or perhaps you can keep reading in other threads and find something - but...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2021
1 points

Little sleep always does make it harder lmao but for me just socialising w close friends n family always helps especially if they understand ur stutter n don’t ridicule u :) breathing exercises rly he...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
1 points

Also, not eveyone that stutters can improve using the same techniques. At the end of the day each person has to figure out what works for them, and what doesn't. For some people nothing might work, r...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
5 points

Hi there. You are already an amazing father, i think every stutterer would wish him a parent like you. I would suggest you to tell your daughter very frequently, that its ok if she stutters, that you...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
1 points

I've been there too many times man... hang in there. It says a lot about them that they find humor out of something you obviously can't control and are self-conscious about. Anyone who laughs at that ...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
2 points

Give her some time. She's still little, and be happy with her. As she gets older those feelings of frustration and isolation may only increase for her - especially as she gets to the teenager years wh...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
11 points

Very well said! It's one thing to hide it and pretend like it doesn't bother you, but you're as much as a human being as they are and deserve to be treated as such. Thank you for bring brave and posti...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
3 points

I made a comment without reading the full post, sorry about that. "Use your words" can definitely be counter productive: as stutterers we're TRYING to use our words, and as she gets older she may thi...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
1 points

This is terrible! She clearly doesn’t understand how stuttering works. It’s not something “to be fixed.” Sure you can acquire some tools for certain situations but it’s never a matter of not trying ha...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
2 points

Call them out. Remind them that they wouldn't laugh at someone who has difficulty walking so why are they laughing at someone who has difficulty speaking. We should be more assertive whenever people a...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
3 points

No, don’t do that. This will make the situation worse. Make good, real, and supportive friends in class. And fuc* the rest. Those that are laughing now will change afterwards, trust me....

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
1 points

I have family who constantly criticize my stutter and that I’m “not doing enough to fix it,” that sort of thing. I feel you, OP. I wish I had advice, I don’t. Just know you aren’t alone. Sending good ...

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