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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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I will propose my crush at work. I will finally be able to have a life partner. I am 27, still single as of now. Not able to talk to girls 🥺...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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Im 22 and im starting to notice this. Its not much of a change but there is a change for sure. Does it get even better with time?...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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Finally talk like i want. Without dodging words, changing the sentence. Phone calls like its nothing. And ask for a date/number....

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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I'm also in the same situation. I got to college, workout regularly, and have an above average physique. Yet, I struggle speaking with girls and have never been in any relationships. But I don't thin...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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I've done the same thing, when I was starting my business I thought it was impossible for someone with a stutter to run a business and talk to customers all day ect. But what I found when I pushed tho...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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We tend to do that to ourselves, we automatically determine that something is "impossible" cause of a stutter when in fact it is possible, just more difficult. And like you said you liked seeing him l...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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Do your “friends” invite you out? Cause if they do and you never ask them to go out or initiate anything then they might think you don’t really want to go out but don’t want to be rude and say no. You...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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I promise you it ***does*** get better, but you must do the work. If you have insurance, see a mental health professional. You’ll eventually learn to separate stuttering from anxiety. I’m 37 now, ha...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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Some people peak in high school. Others find that their time as parents are the best years of their lives. For some people, things get better and better. Point being, don't put too much value in "your...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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More life experience leading to more confidence, more settled personal life, career path and financial security. Stay away from over partying, drugs, work conscientiously and try be a decent person, ...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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My 20s were kinda horrible, TBH. After years of no problems at all, my stutter reappeared in my mid-20s thanks to the circumstances of my life at the time. And it hasn't gone away, it comes and goes...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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Amen to this. Keep feeding your mind with positive constructive information and things will seem more possible. Keep searching for solutions and positive people. Having faith that things will get bett...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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I'm also in this situation, it's difficult to be loved when we don't love ourselves, it's important to note that love is something that needs effort to achieve, and you need to keep in mind what perso...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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sure. espectially when i witness someone in the moment speaking with some eloquence and cadence. but i also know that i wouldn't have the 'life tools' and mindset i have today if i didn't. both of whi...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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I would absolutely reach out to him. It's hard to tell by what you've written if he'd be open and willing to speak with a young stutterer and mentor you in some way. If he's willing and caring to do s...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2023
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Agreed unless it’s severely impacting your mental health, I’d say it’s a good challenge/chance to practice. I’m thankful for being pushed to read aloud and give presentations. Definitely have had an...

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commentr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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Hey budd I am in the same place as you, I think that in these cases we should be stoic and not stop until we find a job, not to think too much about whether we will be accepted or not because of our s...

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commentr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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That’s exactly what I would tell my husband. What I did is such an easy task, that the average non stuttering person can do without any fear or problems, but for us, it’s an accomplishment. Thank you,...

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commentr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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Thank you, I totally agree. I’ve been giving myself small goals to accomplish and so far, it’s been going so well!...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2023
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lol if I were 16 years old and someone told me "it will get worse after school" I would literally kill myself Johny. Be careful what you write. And for the record things get better as I and many here...

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