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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2023
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I'm sorry this happened to you. I would just move on. You wouldn't want to work in that type of environment where you have to deal with that. I'm of the opinion that not everyone is worth "educating"....

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2023
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Idk what your goals are, but I recommend coming to peace with your stutter. It takes consistent repetition of being kind to yourself when you stutter and not make a big deal out of it. I have more ins...

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2023
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I'm a guy in his mid 20s and I've just recently started to disclose my stutter to dates. It makes me less fearful of embarassment. What's funny is that I've had two meaningful relationships in my life...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2023
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honestly if she’s not really flirting with you or giving hints she’s attracted she prolly just enjoy your friendship and if you really appreciate the friendship then I’d just stay friends with her and...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2023
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If I have one thing to share with you and the other it would be this… Your “vulnerability” is not your “weakness…” However, the lack of acknowledgment is. In that… Stutter proudly. NEVER shrink away...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2023
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Don’t suffer in silence. DM me (or anyone else) if you feel defeated. Many of us have been there and we got through it - and that was before we had the benefit of social media to realize we had a “com...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2023
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That’s a beautiful answer. Loved the points where you mentioned how tying your self worth to 1 measurable thing can be detrimental. I have yet to find what my self-worth is truly tied to, and I feel ...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2023
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That’s a hard question . There’s billions of people with different interests. For me I’d say my self worth is tied to my wife, and family. I try to be the best person I can to make her happy and I’m a...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2023
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In my 20s dating was very hard. I matched with guys on dating apps and had multiple stop talking to me when they heard my stutter in person. I finally found my person 3 years ago and he’s been amazing...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2023
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I wish I could wave a magic wand and let you kids look in to the future and see how good life as a PWS can be… BUT ONLY IF YOU CAN FIND IT IN YOURSELVES TO STOP BEING SO FEARFUL AND SO CRITICAL OF YOU...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2023
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The early 20s are definitely a trip for sure. There is hope us. You seem like a great person. If you ever need anything just send me a message. I’m here for you!!...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2023
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I'm sorry to hear that but Abs or muscles would definitely boost my confidence some. Good Luck my friend! We are in this Stuttering journey together...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2023
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On my first date with my wife, I got caught on an extended block that turned into a huge embarrassment for me. I was mortified and I thought I blew my chance right there. 29 years, I can tell you th...

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postr/StutterNov 12, 2023
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Has getting huge and shredded helped you in your stutter at all?

Has getting huge and shredded helped you in your stutter at all? I’m an avid gym goer but my physique hasn’t reached the point where it’d be considered huge. But because higher confidence = less stutt...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2023
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Glad you are getting out there. That the guy didn’t get your number is on him. Believe you can do more....

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2023
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Ugh. I’m so sorry. That’s a shitty way to be treated and her boss should definitely know. You WILL find a job — I promise. I’m now an attorney and I never would have thought this was possible. I still...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2023
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Did you try it? Then, Carry On. Sorry, there's no help for you. This is the most defeatest attitude I've seen on this thread. Most Stutterers are the strongest people I know. It's 8 nights out of your...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2023
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Dude I can tell you right now, you don’t. Thats just how you feel right now. You’re going to continue improving and you’ll forget you ever felt this way....

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2023
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You get to decide how to feel about this world man, your making it all up in your head. There is no objective truth or way to feel about certain things. This life is a gift and a stutter isn’t enough ...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2023
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that's just life sometimes bro, the job either required fluent communication with company clients in which case it's understandable or you dodged a bullet. either way don't get too hung up on it and t...

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