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postr/StutterApr 21, 2025
55 points

Acknowledging your stutter in an interview affects the interviewers perception of you

Acknowledging your stutter in an interview affects the interviewers perception of you Hi everyone, I want to highlight a recent study looking at how interviewers perceive stutterers when they acknowl...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2025
9 points

Maybe you can say it at the start of the Date? Something along the Lines of 'hey just so you know, I have a stutter so I can get stuck on my words from time to time'. Maybe bring some humor into it wh...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2025
1 points

Fellow severe stutterer here. Its ironic, I have a cell phone yet never use it to actually talk on the phone. I too have written things down, and made up ways to communicate what I need to, and my s...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2025
3 points

In my case I prefer People kinda figure it out themselves because I don’t want to introduce myself as stutter, I don’t want it to defy me...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2025
3 points

As long as you’re saying every word you want to say, it shouldn’t matter how it’s said. If someone is being impatient with you, disclose your stutter and quickly explain what stuttering is so they und...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2025
1 points

When working in a new environment or with new colleagues, do you openly disclose your stutter, or do you just talk and people figure it out? I struggle with speech blocking, ESPECIALLY around people I...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2025
2 points

Acceptance--to stop psychological turmoil  Disclosure -to create a stutter friendly environment  Desensitization --you have to talk to people and learn to relax even as a person who stutters.   Ea...

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Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling OthersVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2025
1 points

Hello! My name is Viktor 19M from Bulgaria. I conquered my stutter one year ago and now I help people on the Internet XD. If you want to read a detailed guide of what I did, you can do so [here](htt...

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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2025
1 points

I stutter more around family or people I’m close to. Less chance of being judged. I’m much more mindful of it when I communicate with strangers or co-workers...

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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2025
1 points

What I usually do when someone ask me for my name is say "my name is" or "I'm" than my name...

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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2025
2 points

I also hate presentations ,but I make sure I get those parts that I'm comfortable with, I just hate introductions and conclusions 😆😆 these aret biggest weak points in a presentation...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2025
1 points

If I say something before like “hi- I’m (then my name) chances are I’ll do ok- I hate when people go around the room and have to introduce themselves- my first name starts with a N which is a sound/le...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2025
1 points

I’m a speech therapist :). Essentially, you need to desensitize yourself to speaking with a stutter. Stuttering can be a self-defeating cycle in which the knowledge of stuttering or anticipation of st...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2025
3 points

Have you ever been to the National stuttering Association conference? That was the start of accepting my stutter. You’re surrounded by other people who stutter and understand you and you feel so suppo...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2025
6 points

Hi there, I stutter as well. I found a lot of direction and confidence in finding a support group. Connecting with organizations like the National Stuttering Association (NSA) helped me realize I wasn...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2025
1 points

I second everyone who suggested you disclose it before the interview! I started doing it a few years ago and I think it really improved my job interviews outcomes! And definitely don't apologize for i...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2025
1 points

Tell them in the beginning that you have a stutter. And don’t consider stutter a disability, just think that’s something that makes you unique. I had an interview where the interviewer told me “I’m su...

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commentr/StutterApr 7, 2025
1 points

You should not apologize. You didn’t choose to stutter. “Before we get started, you should know that I stutter. Higher stress situations, like job interviews, tend to bring more stuttering than usual...

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commentr/StutterApr 7, 2025
5 points

yessss 🙏 ^(and saying "i'm a person who stutters" is so damn long and has all my worse and hated sounds lol)...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2025
1 points

Here's what I usually do, I'll send off an email to the person I'm interviewing with the day before with some variation of this: "Hello! Really excited to interview tomorrow at X time, I just want to...

Social & RelationshipsMeds & Substances
Disclosure & Telling OthersMedication Inquiries