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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
1 points

Yeahh man but thankfully I got a job interview tomorrow on a retail job tryna get out my comfort zone as much as possible...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
6 points

Have to remember that stuttering is “trying not to stutter” so just be ok with it and stutter away. It sounds easy but most of us hate losing so much we can’t let it go. Once you’re ok with it. You ...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
10 points

For me, it was working. Getting a job after high school and being forced to talk gradually got me out of it. I remember taking almost half an hour to tell an ice breaker in elementary school (not kidd...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
19 points

Mine got a lot better when I moved from avoidance behavior to going on the offense. Basically feeling the fear but forcing myself into speaking situations. Allowing myself to stutter openly to reduce ...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
1 points

Yes, sometimes. Sometimes stuttering gets worse, sometimes not. I noticed that i stutter less with strangers if i tell them that i stutter....

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
2 points

I’m exactly the same, I’ve always been worse with my family, yet at work or I’m meeting someone for the first time I manage much better. My theory is that word substitution and creative management to ...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
4 points

First two paragraphs are so relatable other than the "You don’t run away from your problems". I've stopped taking phone calls for over an year now. Anyways, a really good read. congrats on your j...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
3 points

THOUSAND TIMES YES. Meeting somebody new, I have no issues whatsoever. Meanwhile I can barely get sentences out to my own parents and close friends. Everybody I tell this to seems to think its ass ba...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
2 points

I have it the same way, have been like this for as long as I remember. I really don't know why, it's not that I don't care about my stutter around family and stutter more because I use less technique...

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postr/StutterAug 16, 2021
14 points

Personal Essay

Personal Essay To preface this post, I'm a Master Sergeant in the United States Space Force & am likely going to submit this personal essay, as well as many other documents, with an application to...

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2021
3 points

You may stutter, but it sounds like you might let it define you too much. I stutter too. It sucks. And I respect you for trying everything you can. You can do any job you have your heart set on - espe...

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2021
1 points

I appreciate your response very much. Can you maybe give some more details on data entry stuff? I don't plan on doing this long term at all. I just need like a stepping stone to get me out of this rea...

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2021
3 points

My go to has always been data entry and record clerk jobs. I've found that both of those positions require minimal speaking. However, try not to box yourself in because of your stutter. If there is so...

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2021
3 points

I stutter less with people I am more comfortable with and know more...

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postr/StutterAug 16, 2021
10 points

I'm a stutter trying to recover from a major setback

I'm a stutter trying to recover from a major setback Hello everyone, I don't know why I never thought about checking reddit for a stutter support group before. I remember years ago I tried to join a ...

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2021
2 points

Same. For me, pressure actually helps with my stuttering, e.g. meetings and networking; so when I’m around friends, more comfortable, I tend to stutter....

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2021
4 points

It's the same for me. Maybe it's because you're kind of acting and not being yourself when meeting new people. I find that when I act differently to my normal self, I stutter less... stuttering is a s...

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2021
0 points

Get educated about stuttering?? I stuttered for over 40 years, been to numerous speech therapists, intensive speech courses etc and made no difference. Not stuttered for over 6 months, thanks to L...

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2021
8 points

I stutter way more around my family. Other then that, I may significantly stutter only if I’m in more stressful situations....

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2021
9 points

Personally I find the opposite to be true. I believe it is a psychological subconscious thing. I stutter more frequently around people I am just meeting because I am nervous about them first noticing ...

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