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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2025
3 points

You've got this! One thing that helps me when I feel I'm going to stutter is to get ahead of it. I'd start with something like "Greetings, as you can tell, I have a speech impediment which makes this ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2025
3 points

Yes! Fortunately I was able to inform her (through my written application and at the start of the interview) that I stutter. For some reason it made me more nervous though. I think it was because I ha...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2025
10 points

I’ve found that informing the interviewer I stutter right at the start makes me feel more confident during the interview and during moments of stuttering. A script such as “before we begin I want to s...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & CareerAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2025
3 points

Hey, you could always make one up. Say something like, "You couldn't pronounce my actual name, so just call me X". Maybe that'll help initially, and as you get comfortable you could introduce your act...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2025
9 points

First off, congratulations on getting the job. The way i do it is i have two first names, i pick the easier one for me to introduce myself. If you have only one first name, maybe you could pick a cool...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringEmployment & CareerStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
2 points

try self-disclosing when you meet a new person. “hey you’ll hear me stutter, i just need an extra moment” or something like that more fitting to you...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2025
2 points

A relationship in which you never discuss a significant part of your life, be it a good part or a bad part, with your partner, does not sound very healthy....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2025
2 points

Stutter on first date, because I’d like them to love me as I am, not hiding/suppressing the inevitable outcome....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2025
2 points

Better to just get it over with. There was no way you were going to hide it 100% of the time. Once you let the cat out of the bag, people will just be more accepting of it. To me it would be a relief ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2025
2 points

I think the best thing for you to is to say right at the start of the interview that you have a stutter. By doing that you’ll take all the pressure off yourself and you’ll be better able to focus on a...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
1 points

There was one guy in High School that I knew of. I figured out he had it because he must've been talking to me because of some assignment given to him by the school speech therapist. (I had an evalua...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
1 points

I have met a few people but have also been too scared to say me too, especially since my stutter is pretty mild...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
6 points

It’s awkward because you HAVE to tell them that you stutter, otherwise it feels like your making fun of them....

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2025
5 points

Certified speech therapist here. In my experience, dealing with stuttering is all about regaining control. If volutional stuttering puts you in control, then it is an improvement. I think the idea is ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Fluency TechniquesAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2025
1 points

When you said 'talk about your stuttering', did you mean that I should tell the listener something like 'Sorry for the wait man, I have a severe stutter, you know'?...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2025
3 points

I’d argue this technique is effective when paired with other methods like a disclosure statement. For me, voluntarily stuttering was just super awkward. Not in a “oh gosh, I look silly/off.”, but in a...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
2 points

Dress well and hold a smile while talking. You can open with, “Hi, I stutter but I wanted to tell you I like your shoes” or something like that. They’re probably gonna be blushing. Women have been app...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
2 points

I’m a woman with a stutter who dates men. Bars are super hard. Have you tried dating apps so you could message/text first? Get some banter going and tell the woman you stutter. Get a reaction, and mov...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterApr 25, 2025
46 points

“Did you forget your name?”

“Did you forget your name?” Genuinely, in terms of probability, when someone sees me stutter or say “ummm” after asking me what my name is, me forgetting my own name cannot be the most probable outcom...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingFeared Words & Names+1 more
postr/StutterApr 24, 2025
6 points

Fearing my F-1 visa interview

Fearing my F-1 visa interview As I have a stutter, I occasionally stutter alot and it’s out of my control. Even though I am not nervous at all I stutter, and it has become a pretty common thing in my ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more