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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2021
38 points

I’ve gotten better at talking on phone but I hate when people watch me talk on the phone. I like to be alone. Especially to start the conversation...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2021
1 points

No, I don’t believe it is offensive. Especially if you are willing to do it in public, because that will take the same courage as someone that stutters to get out there and speak. And that’s commendab...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2021
4 points

If people think that literally doing their job is 'offensive' they are fucking idiots. Also, I want to say that for many stutterers (most) the experience is not physical. You can never replicate how...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentTrauma & PsychologicalMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2021
1 points

Same. It makes me stutter less because people can't see my face :)...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2021
0 points

Stuttering has never held me back in my career and I have meetings every day with random people. The only thing that has held me back has been my own anxiety about stuttering....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterSep 13, 2021
29 points

How do I achieve my career potential with a stutter.

How do I achieve my career potential with a stutter. Sorry, I don't know how to TLDR this one. I am just venting and appreciate any feedback from those who have gone through or understand what I'm goi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2021
1 points

I feel for them and understand the struggle. One of my teachers in college stuttered but he was very good at hiding it. Was a very small class and I was probably only one who noticed. I was actually i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2021
2 points

I would very much like to find out what condition this is. I think I have the same thing. Mine started probably around 11 or 12. All of sudden I just couldn’t make sounds when I was nervous. It’s li...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2021
2 points

Stuttering is a disability and it manifests itself in so many ways. I had this problem and many of us who stutter have the problem of being marginal, withdrawn and not being able to express ourselve...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2021
3 points

I’ve coped my entire life. I still stutter in front of groups and every new person I meet. The way I’ve coped has evolved. I’m surprised you described this event like it was the only stuttering event ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentBlocks & StoppagesRepetitions & Prolongations+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2021
1 points

It's also possible to have covert stammering which others can't usually hear because you manage it with strategies like swapping words for easier ones and avoiding certain topics and situstions...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
postr/StutterSep 11, 2021
7 points

What even is stammering anyway?

What even is stammering anyway? Hi all, I know it's a bit long but please bear with me. I have never really voiced these questions before, especially not to other stammerers. I wasn't sure how to phr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
postr/StutterSep 11, 2021
3 points

Stuttering while being a cashier

Stuttering while being a cashier So I work in a grocery store where sometimes I have to talk to the customer. But the thing is when I do I start stuttering and I start shaking because I feel like I’m ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2021
4 points

Hiding it only causes tension. You can’t run from who you are and once you start owning it and being ok if you stutter or not your words will come much easier....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2021
3 points

I spent so many years of my life not sharing my thoughts because I was afraid of stuttering and that makes me so sad. I still do it sometimes. As I got older, I adopted a DGAF attitude. Now I'm a prof...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2021
27 points

Get out of your own head. No reason to be embarrassed. Stuttering is hard. Stop lying. Don't say you had a headache trying to conceal a truth that will come out. Stutterers are practiced at deceptio...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterSep 11, 2021
40 points

Pretty fucking embarrassing.

Pretty fucking embarrassing. So I got invited to hang out with some other college kids today but I wasn't talking much. I didn't stutter almost when I talked but I didn't tell any stories or anything,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2021
1 points

Most seems to agree that it's related to the dopamine levels in the brain. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dopamine_hypothesis_of_stuttering There are studies where stuttering in successfully treated w...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Neurological & BrainHiding & ConcealmentHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2021
10 points

For me stuttering causes anxiety. So I don't say anything most of the times because im afraid, people judged me so much when I was a kid that I decided to not speak at all....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterSep 8, 2021
4 points

How do I develop confidence with my stutter?

How do I develop confidence with my stutter? I’m literally trying so hard. Truthfully I don’t care what others think, I don’t. But when I stutter I sweat and get embarrassed. I’m tired of trying to hi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation